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Social Phobia
Turkey i_like_tea 
The only thing that i couldn't fix it about my character and it goes worse. I feel like all of the people hate me and it makes me feel so small. Any advices? (expect psychologist, they don't fix my prolem)
2020-09-28 21:26
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Come to brazil, we only hate furia players
2020-09-28 21:27
Hahahah i really want to go Brazil and travel all South and Center America.
2020-09-28 21:30
good idea, its nice here (but sometimes dangerous)
2020-09-28 21:31
#18
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Brazil lortBR
Don't mind him, furia players are the nicest people, now I advise you to watch out for ex-mibr fans, they're such a toxic and disrespectful people.
2020-09-28 21:34
you attack us for no reason and say we are the toxic ones hmm...
2020-09-28 21:38
+1 ironic
2020-09-28 21:39
#39
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Brazil lortBR
sorry but I can't see where I attack you, I just threw facts :)
2020-09-28 21:46
sorry not sorry
2020-09-28 21:49
#45
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Brazil lortBR
sorry not sorry not sorry
2020-09-28 21:51
+1 furia are nice not toxic players
2020-09-28 21:43
#40
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Brazil lortBR
yup
2020-09-28 21:47
#2
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Germany DEBlL
talk to me
2020-09-28 21:27
You mean with pm?
2020-09-28 21:31
#32
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Germany DEBlL
idk if u want to, doesnt make a difference to me
2020-09-28 21:41
Thank you so much but that will probably make you depressed too. (and i am actually no good with talking my things xd) But that made me happy!
2020-09-28 21:51
#48
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Germany DEBlL
no problem good luck
2020-09-28 21:52
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Brazil IsFree
Tip: People dont hate you, they REALLY dont care You feel small cuz thecnically, you are small, we're not main characters on this narrative Just have fun
2020-09-28 21:28
+1
2020-09-28 21:31
I know but i don't know, somehow i feel like this, if someone laugh i always think cause of me even it dosen't about me. And auchhh.
2020-09-28 21:32
This probably came from childhood Psychologist cant help you, because even if they FIND THE CAUSE, they dont know something: Now your brain and body are addicited to this "feeling" and you living in a eternal looping beliving in something you dont need to be Read "breaking the habit of being yourself" Your are welcome.
2020-09-28 21:29
Yes, won't deny i get used to it. I'll check the book. Thanks for advice!
2020-09-28 21:34
i'm sorry but you're saying shit that should not be said to those seeking help. Albeit right on the reason you presented, a Psychologist is exactly the one that can help tha patient to deal with both trauma from the past AND events channeled into addictions.
2020-09-28 21:34
Well, i agree with you. I shouldn't have said. But, the main message was : always try another things in life to solve your problems, self knowledge is important, and books can change lives.
2020-09-28 21:38
Unfortunely i cant edit anymore
2020-09-28 21:36
u probably lack testosterone my frend.
2020-09-28 21:29
Hahahah
2020-09-28 21:34
no its true. unbalanced hormones are a big reason for social anxiety and anxiety in general.
2020-09-28 21:37
I swear kids these days are so mentally weak, it's insane
2020-09-28 21:29
Yeah maybe it cause of i live a comfortable life luckily. Thanks anyway.
2020-09-28 21:35
Comfortable limited life. You will not try anything new in your life if you think like that, weak ass kid
2020-09-28 21:38
that broke my heart:,) but i try, i really try and trying to try.
2020-09-28 21:47
What are you afraid of ?
2020-09-28 21:53
I don't want to say, it is a bad thing. But what will change if i say?
2020-09-28 21:57
Ok then I will end this conversation right here if you don’t even want to get help
2020-09-28 21:58
What will change if i say? since i already know the answer.
2020-09-28 21:58
The first step to fixing anything is becoming aware of what you fear, so yes it can help to say what you fear
2020-09-28 22:15
But as i said i already know it.
2020-09-28 22:16
heyy at least answer this
2020-09-28 22:02
I think you don't know the answer but i can say, it won't help anything or changing any situation.
2020-09-28 22:09
paroxetine helped me
2020-09-28 21:31
I don't want to use medicine.
2020-09-28 21:36
well you're going to need to make some life choices and focus on changing. sort out your life, hit the gym, eat healthy, stop p0rn, thigns will become brighter
2020-09-28 21:45
#29
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Japan gachinko
this helped me and destroyed me at the same time
2020-09-28 21:39
#12
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Turkey TheKaiser
Try to get along with closer ones to you first. People are going to care more about you if you're caring about the others - or looking like you're caring about the others -. Might be wrong but this is my opinion.
2020-09-28 21:31
i think i am already close enough with them.
2020-09-28 21:37
#36
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Turkey TheKaiser
Well then, you have the chance of getting closer to other people via your close friends. Socializing more can probably help on this.
2020-09-28 21:42
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Brazil eumesmo
no one cares about you. that's the greatest advice i can give to you, and that is true. most of people don't give a fuck about you, how can they hate you? second, get out of your home and start talking with people.
2020-09-28 21:33
Well, i try to go out of my house as possible.
2020-09-28 21:40
#60
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Brazil eumesmo
HA! YOU GOT CAUGHT BY COVID PATROL!
2020-09-28 22:05
#15
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Brazil Catatauu
just dont take it serious. people dont care about you, they are not analizing you, you could say a bunch of shit and they would forget next day. just have fun.
2020-09-28 21:33
Yeah i know, i already know but it dosen't help. Thanks you for advicing.
2020-09-28 21:41
Sadly, exposure therapy is the only thing that can fix it.
2020-09-28 21:37
:/// sigh..
2020-09-28 21:42
Sadly man, I know how you feel.. I have become a really closed person, dont really know how to start talking with people.
2020-09-28 21:42
Yeah, same. ://
2020-09-28 21:52
Are you good on something, anything ?
2020-09-28 21:48
Was it a judge sentence or you really asking?
2020-09-28 21:53
You see ? That is the problem right there !! Why to judge you , why to even think that im trying to judge you over a question ? You see this social phobia is coming from ourselves. WE are the ones overthinking about what others might think of us non stop and it is because of those constant thoughts, 99% of the time for no reason, we become social phobics
2020-09-28 22:12
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North America Straf3R
eh, I never really had friends growing up. I was always kinda a weird kid and had a loud personality. I just kinda like being alone now or playing cs or other games with friends from HS or college who are like me. Don't give a shit about what people say or think about you. You are you, don't change.
2020-09-28 21:48
Every people change, probably 3 year before you isn't same with you. And we must change, adapt the society.
2020-09-28 21:55
Stop baiting, Desi.
2020-09-28 21:55
Why you have no flag? At least for me.
2020-09-28 21:57
Because now im become death, The destroyer of worlds.
2020-09-28 22:03
I think Andorra flag doesn't work for some people
2020-09-28 22:07
#57
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Poland perun2033
Boring
2020-09-28 22:01
just stop trying to make people like you! bottom line, people don't care about you. then when you start to be yourself, you will chat with diferent people and you will find people that you are confortable
2020-09-28 22:06
Do i make people like me? If so, how??
2020-09-28 22:12
Damn, feels good knowing there's more like me lol, except I get such a confidence boost when I'm arround my close friends
2020-09-28 22:13
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Portugal astacp
but why people would hate you? is it because your personality? coz the way you look? you think you are a bad person? coz you are shy?
2020-09-28 22:17
people soon or later will dissapoint you, so you good
2020-09-28 22:19
Besides all the comments and, your psychologist advices/comments, I'd recommend you to do some lil exercises .. Human beings work on practice and habits, I mean, you think that everyone hates you and after that you don't want to socialize with anyone, yeah, but If you want to change that, the only thing you can do is to FORCE yourself into LITTLE steps (This part is pretty important) to change your own mind and your own thoughts and feelings ..
2020-09-28 23:43
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