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CIS t1m1d 
Can you actually find success there? I’m not exactly attractive and I’m not good at making a conversation or communicating or talking either. Some time ago I could refer to myself as socially-awkward or anxious The only advantage I can think of compared to other dudes is that I’m 197cm and there’s a myth that girls prefer tall guys (which is still questionable) But I really want to get a nice couple and I’m lonely and desperate so dating apps seem like they only possible option or solution for me
2020-10-25 10:56
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No you got to simp out hard to succeed
2020-10-25 10:57
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girls don’t like simps. They just tend to to advantage of them but then fall for some “bad guy” who treats them like shit
2020-10-25 11:23
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Girls like guys with confidence. Being nice is not an advantage in dating, but it's not a disadvantage either. It's just pretty irrelevant.
2020-10-25 18:49
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pls just go back to your basement
2020-10-29 22:27
i had success with it, i think anyone who has the balls to actually invite somebody out on a date through a dating app will at some point find success. but there can be a lot of shitty dates
2020-10-25 10:58
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Yeah that’s what I’m afraid of. Like even if there’s gonna be THAT ONE girl (soulmate or whatever), you would still have to attend like 100 shitty dates beforehand which would probably make you feel awful afterwards
2020-10-25 11:00
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i mean a date can be awkward or you're either just not attracted to each other but i dont think you will feel "awful" unless she completely roasted you which nobody does
2020-10-25 11:03
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Well it would still suck. I know cuz I’ve tried it myself and had shitty awkward dates that I wish I didnt attend at all. And sometimes you just wanna give up on searching and trying cuz you think it’s not worth it
2020-10-25 11:07
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As for shitty dates, you can stop it every moment you want. Just say that you feel some tension and don't want to continue the date. That's it, after that you're free to go and relax somewhere)
2020-10-25 12:25
2020-10-29 22:24
rarely success tbh
2020-10-25 10:58
Russia nobody_cars
It's just a way for ugly girls to find a boyfriend or for 8+/10 to get ez money or attention
2020-10-25 10:58
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I don’t think you can possibly make ez money through it, unless you’re selling nudes or smth like that
2020-10-25 11:02
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Free dinner is kinda profit if they are legit 8+ a lot of dudes will still simp for them in these ways.
2020-10-25 20:34
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Yeah actually true I didn’t think about it. That’s why I think first date shouldn’t be in a restaurant or something like that. Why would I wanna pay for a girl I don’t even know yet or ain’t attracted to mentally?
2020-10-27 09:48
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2020-10-27 13:36
the vegan supermarket, best place to score a date even if ur not vegan haha
2020-10-25 11:01
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Why though? Tbh I don’t even think we have a vegan supermarket in my city
2020-10-25 11:03
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na rynok k babkam s ovoschami pozvat' axaxaxaxax
2020-10-25 11:06
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2020-10-25 11:07
this is fucking genious
2020-10-25 17:09
who wants vegan/feminist girlfriend? it would be horrible
2020-10-25 17:47
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It might be fun
2020-10-25 20:28
Who wants to date a vegan? Im not getting a girlfriend who tells me im evil towards animals on a daily basis.
2020-10-25 17:47
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lol prejudices my frend. most vegans are totally fine with u sitting next to them eating a steak.
2020-10-25 19:32
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I might be wrong, but I feel like thats not true.
2020-10-25 22:40
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mayb u denmark people are different. but dutch vegans mostly dont give a shit about what u do.
2020-10-25 23:02
I only know one vegan so I don't have a wide perspective but she wouldn't care
2020-10-27 09:57
explain my friend, what markets are they, teach me
2020-10-29 22:24
some have succes but dont expect too much. however, nothing to lose by trying it out right
2020-10-25 11:01
You will not find the partner of your life from somr garbage app
2020-10-25 11:02
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Why not? Dating app is just a tool or instrument that can help you meeting new people
2020-10-25 11:12
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Look, you will not be able to see what they really are like since you didnt really spend much time with them and are going off if what they said In the other hand if you met someone beforehand chances are you know a bit about their personality atleast and wont be risking it
2020-10-25 11:17
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This argument is not really valid. What do you mean? Ofc you don’t start a relationship right away. You meet them multiple times, get to know them, then you decide whether you like that person or not, based on so many factors. It doesn’t happen instantly, unless you’re just searching for one-night stands
2020-10-25 11:22
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Okay do whatever the fuck you want You ask for peoples opinions and then just bitch about defending what the hell you asked about
2020-10-25 11:29
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It’s not even my thread lmao and I didn’t ask for any opinion. Also you can’t even elaborate your opinion properly and have no arguments whatsoever
2020-10-25 13:11
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+1 dumb turk
2020-10-25 17:02
Ignore him bro , Prolly he doesn't even know what he is talking about . Also I agree with you , Nobody forces you to date with someone through app and you dont need to hurry about it , just meet couple times and if you dont really feel like its gonna work , try again with someone else . That should be the true mentality of it , not the one night hangout idea
2020-10-27 09:55
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2020-10-29 22:08
normal people dont need apps to meet others
2020-10-25 17:05
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expected from academic heavy weight
2020-10-25 17:09
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still dont understand why jonny e decided to delete my thread 👌😟
2020-10-25 18:46
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he jelly af
2020-10-25 21:04
Oh Tinder what a shit show. Hate dating apps, but it all i got during this times. I can tell you that even unattractive guys can meet women there, but you have to put on some work if in your profile if you are unattractive. Since it's all about first impression and looks, height can be a huge plus for you, So learn how to build a good profile. You do that and I'm positive you will meet some women. BUT please don't take the the ghosting, rejections, low matches as a sign of your worth. Good luck.
2020-10-25 11:05
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Thanks. But what exactly do you mean by “a good profile”? What would you suggest? Tbh I think I’m quite a boring person and I don’t even know what to write on profile info. I also don’t have friends which might scare away some potential girls Even when I get a match once in a while, I just don’t know what to write to her in DM so it wouldn’t be corny or cringy. And then you need to attain interest somehow. And from my experience girls almost never text you first.
2020-10-25 11:18
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You need to find or take pictures, that make you look attractive, friendly and interesting. Don't worry so much about your tinder game, you will learn eventually. Go into dating forums, some have very good advice. NOT on HLTV. I recommend, PlayingWithFire channel on Youtube, although this guy looks like your typical annoying dating guru, he has pretty good advice, which helped me a lot.
2020-10-25 11:57
Use my bio (Which was proudly stolen) "I am so glad I swiped right" You, next week and then I have there my height (189 cm if anyone is curious) and my Ig So far it worked, lol
2020-10-27 09:54
just go outside grab someone by the tit and sex
2020-10-25 11:55
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Things are not same here as in Brasil mens))
2020-10-27 09:55
Frankly speaking, you've got to focus on improving yourself and finding what do you want to do in this world. Girls adore men who's not focusing on finding love but on their own goals in life (work, sport, etc). Read some books about psychology like "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus". Believe me after improving yourself you'll start noticing that girls pay attention to you and start conversation by themselves (they do not start it if they are not interested in man, of course there are rare exceptions to this rule). As for you anxiety and fear to communicate you've got to analyze why do you have such fear and start working on this problem. Do you have nothing to say about yourself or you're afraid to be rejected? I can recommend you to use chat-roulette in order to practice your communication with random people. If you fail, there is nothing to worry about cause you won't see this people again ever. But it gives you infinite opportunities to overcome your fear of communications. Good luck and Have Fun!
2020-10-25 12:14
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+1 good advice actually which is rare for hltv
2020-10-25 13:13
I started recently using more of dating apps, but what i noticed is that i lose interest really quickly. Like, i think its quite normal for guys to carry conversation, but i just can't do it, like after an hour of chat i'll just stop, and go on with my day.
2020-10-25 17:19
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If she's not asking questions she is not interested in you. No need to spend time on girls who's not even interested. You can just stop responding as soon as you notice that conversation is getting boring and she's not involved much. Just go to the next girl)). It's normal cause there are lots of girls who doesn't have much to say. If she's really interested in you she will be more enthusiastic and will support the communication)
2020-10-25 17:44
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She doesnt have to ave ask questions but you pretty much explained what i wanted to say right after. No point having conversation when she is not helping on expaning it.
2020-10-25 20:46
If you are a simp, you will always finish last. Which means, change your game and become an Alpha Male.
2020-10-25 13:57
Denmark KalasYoP
I've been with hot girl, and not so hot girls that I've approached on the street/at parties. I have much more success that way that on dating apps. I have many matches on Tinder. I've written with many girls and so on, but when i ask them out they just write some shit excuse. Like we are writing together for couple of days, and then i ask her, and boom, now shes not interested. Ofc we are talking about girls that are hot here, from personal experience its easier with girls that are not that attractive. In conclusion Easy to find ugly girls that are interested Hot girls end up ghosting you or writing shit excuses for not wanting to meet up.
2020-10-25 14:06
Finland nexustron
maybe build up personality and confidence? just typing at HLTV won't make you much, go do sports, start educating yourself and do self-development
2020-10-25 14:08
Go on tinder im sure there will be plenty of desperate whales on that
2020-10-25 14:11
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2020-10-27 10:00
In your situation, no. I can give you some tips but it's not going to make you "date ready" in a day, it takes time.
2020-10-25 14:17
Rob4 | 
Serbia e_loK
Well there is always a chance you'll find love there but it is slim Also a lot of my female friend really like tall guys
2020-10-25 14:19
As a man, you are lost in such apps. Woman gets millions of offers. So I would recommend other ways than an app.
2020-10-25 14:24
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Why woman million offer but man less offer
2020-10-29 19:42
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A random average woman gets 100 requests but man don't give request. They only have to wait.
2020-10-29 21:07
Don’t say ur not attractive, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder Idek how I dated but don’t put urself down. Just talk to people and you will find someone you like
2020-10-25 17:03
Argentina Killhux548
well i used to be like you bro, if you use tinder forget of getting a girlfriend there, but it will be good to gain a lot of experience with girls, and then it will be really easy to talk and meet them, so thats when you will be ready to get a gf, you need experience and dating apps are the best to get it
2020-10-25 17:12
Girls love a tall man. Dont write in your bio that you are 197cm though, show it. Have pictures that in one way or another clearly shows how big you are.
2020-10-25 17:15
There are different dating apps, do not know your location, but e.g tinder is more of a hooking app. I would recommend you to just go out and go - well here goes nothing, and approach a girl directly, you may get rejected a few times but you will get a lot of confidence from it. Also work on yourself/your goals and you will be interesting and cool to hang out with even if you are not a great conversationist. GL bro, go out there and get some ass
2020-10-25 17:47
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+1 real life approach is for true alphas
2020-10-25 18:42
Why would you get confidence by getting rejected? More like opposite lol
2020-10-27 09:56
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You will get confidence boost because you approached her. You get confidence because of your actions, not because of others.Try it, or with anything else, you will see for yourself, if you push your limits, even the failure will encourage you. Also you cannot win them all, even Chris Pratt would not pick up every chick, but you will have better conversion rate than on a dating app, thats for sure.
2020-10-29 16:40
wtf 3 replies
2020-10-27 09:56
wtf 3 replies
2020-10-27 09:56
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Why would you post this 3 times? Also nice comment
2020-10-27 09:57
Just type in bio that you are 197 cm. You will get the bad girls but you will get more than 0.
2020-10-25 18:48
just go to twitch.. example pokimane.. donate like 90% of ur bankroll then u have like a 0.005% chance
2020-10-25 19:33
real life is best, see it like a video game put more than 5k hours into talkin to strangers be it girls or guys whatever its 2020, u will also become more confident and less anxious after a while. my therapist said i should do 5 things everyday that im scared off and ever since, its perfectly fine.
2020-10-25 20:52
dont extend conversation too much, try to get their number, then try to make a date. face to face its easier to talk at least to me.
2020-10-25 22:43
No, those apps are mainly used by ugly-ok looking girls looking to boost their confidence. I never had to use em to get women to chase me.
2020-10-25 23:06
hltv is a good dating app
2020-10-27 09:58
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+1 you can find sexy mens))
2020-10-27 09:59
2020-10-27 09:59
+1 if you're gay
2020-10-29 16:41
2020-10-29 16:42
it's not false that girls prefer guys who are taller than them, but it's not the only criterion
2020-10-29 22:09
I'm kind of a 'ok' looking guy, and yet I found some nice girls on Tinder when I was using it... Just dont get too hopefull about everyone because there is too many girls just wanting attenttion there, and once they find, they're gone... If I could give you an advice, it would be that you should try to work it out on your conversation if you dont think that is good... The thing is that the girl must have interest on you, and if you don't have money or isn't the prettiest guy in the word, you must do something to attrack her, at least is what I do since i'm really fucking broke right now
2020-10-29 22:21
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