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Do you think your parents did a good job raising you?
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Germany Effizienz 
Be honest.
2020-12-05 22:50
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#1
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Brazil ghcnvbkn
i dont care tbh
2020-12-05 22:51
#2
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Italy steven513
In certain aspects, yes, but of course, there is a lot lacking.
2020-12-05 22:51
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#19
koks | 
Yugoslavia al0))
+1
2020-12-05 23:07
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Sweden günT
Yes, they did a good job raising me and my siblings. They should have gotten divorced right after I was born tho, they've never been happy together in my lifetime.
2020-12-05 22:52
6 replies
plus one
2020-12-05 23:29
> raising günt > a good job
2020-12-06 00:24
3 replies
cry is free
2020-12-06 00:32
+1
2020-12-06 00:53
#127
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Denmark Notallama
+1
2020-12-10 04:13
#126
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Indonesia sTakaTaka
bulgarian now?
2020-12-10 04:12
no
2020-12-05 22:52
#5
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Germany I_car
Not bad
2020-12-05 22:53
You decide what kind of person you wanna be, shitty parents does not determine your mindset or what you want to do with your life. Pointless thread.
2020-12-05 22:54
71 replies
dang you just cracked the field of psychology what a moronic comment
2020-12-05 22:57
16 replies
Good point, looks like your parents raised you to be an unassuming cunt on the internet. Have a good day.
2020-12-05 23:02
15 replies
He is a cunt because you made a comment that is only partially true? (If even that)
2020-12-05 23:09
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He said the first line, then edited it to talk shit right after and made it sarcastic, that's what a cunt is. You can argue the point, or you can just talk shit without context. Tell me if that constitutes my response or not? And if you want other factors like abuse or trauma to be added into being raised, then sure, make the thread EVEN MORE pointless. Also add being forced into your home, never to leave it, having no internet or any outside influences. Make it extreme so that I can call you a moron because clearly the OP is stating it as if there wasn't any extreme circumstances involved.
2020-12-05 23:16
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ye because only extreme circumstances have any sort of impact on our behavioral and general psychological development and I really don't see where op clearly stated that. mind showing me?
2020-12-05 23:19
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#33
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Germany I_car
+1 wtf
2020-12-05 23:23
Never said it did, I said that's what you're implying. But whatever, it sucks to have no IQ. How great of a behavioral difference do you want with somebody, where they're raised, what neighborhood, around what demographic, rich or poor. Some kids are predispositioned, does that mean it's because of the parents? Some kids in 3rd world countries end up making their own side stalls at 14 year old to make money. That's just life, you ULTIMATELY, end up becoming the factor of where your life goes unless there is an extreme measure or circumstance that prevents them from making any individual decisions as a human being. So the answer you want is not gonna appear here, bye.
2020-12-05 23:43
I don't think OP clearly stated it and even then you are heavily underestimating the influence other people have on us, conciously or sub-con. You want a proper arguing but the first comment you made looks shallow to say the least looking at it one way.
2020-12-05 23:22
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#43 Consciously or subconsciously, great. You also don't account for any outside factors, which tends to take up a major part of their lives and forms their own ideas, opinions, and hates, likes. Parents play a big role in initial development but how much do you really remember from the ages of 1-10? Even if the parent was the nicest, most forgiving human being, that doesn't mean the kid won't become a fuckin psychopath or a shitty person. If anything your comment is even more shallow If I were to follow your definition.
2020-12-05 23:54
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Who said I don't account those? Odds matter too, just because there is always a chance someone may turn up badly doesn't mean you shouldn't try your best, I really don't get what point are you trying to make with the last sentence in the 1st paragraph, also what exactly that I said was shallow?
2020-12-07 10:32
7 replies
LOL
2020-12-10 01:55
6 replies
Reply needs to have content?
2020-12-10 03:42
5 replies
ROFL
2020-12-10 03:56
4 replies
Is this really all you have to say?
2020-12-10 13:47
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sorry ur not worth my time, read my other posts in this thread if you want answers #43 #104 some others
2020-12-10 20:25
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I mean, I haven't disagreed with majority of your points yet you proceeded to insult and call everyone low IQ when presented with any logical response, seems in fact that you are might be the one that has low IQ and is projecting onto others.
2020-12-11 21:38
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On the contrary my explanations are pretty thorough and then the retards trying to counter it literally deflect the entire argument. Look at #104 and the first sentence of #110 and you tell me that's the reasonable response of a self proclaimed "127 IQ" individual. It's really not, not even an essence of agreement, just pure and unfiltered biased garbage that only caters to his thoughts. I don't have time for that, or for you.
2020-12-11 21:58
not even really true, parents can greatly effect your mentality, how you approach things, or how good you turn out. If you had emotionally abusive parents, you'll almost always be worse off then if you had out standing and supportive parents.
2020-12-05 22:58
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How you start is not how you end.
2020-12-05 22:59
28 replies
Not necessarily, but it's a pretty good indicator most of the time
2020-12-05 22:59
27 replies
Sure, in more extreme cases. Abuse and trauma is not exactly part of being raised, those sorts of things can destroy your life from the very start with no hope of fixing it.
2020-12-05 23:01
26 replies
Your baiting is terrible
2020-12-06 00:12
25 replies
Go ahead and explain the correct response since you're so smart
2020-12-06 00:14
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There's no point putting a drop of sense into you. Clearly you think differently than the rest of society. Maybe your parents raised you perfectly 😎
2020-12-06 00:17
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Based off your response I can already tell you have no idea, just some beta kid who talks shit to bait people. At least you got my attention though 👍
2020-12-06 00:21
22 replies
Read your name. Thats my response
2020-12-06 00:22
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Ok geek, come back when your IQ is a bit higher, then a real conversation can happen.
2020-12-06 00:34
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But insuating I'm a geek in turn means I'm smart. Again read your name.
2020-12-06 00:37
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That's not what it means, and you can't even spell the word insinuating correctly. But yeah, come back when you actually can answer #15, which is complimented by #43 and #47. Which I know you won't because you're already too mad to even think straight.
2020-12-06 00:45
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I'm not mad in the slightest. I don't see a need in educating a 12 year old burger. I'll answer #15 Your development from parents is not limited to the extreme cases of "abuse and trauma" You neglect the positive extrema of spoiling which is also a negative. Now I'm not arguing parents are the only cause of your development. They are, however, the biggest factor in your childhood development. Arguing that point makes you handicapped. The "outside factors" are miniscule to the amount of time spent with your parents learning from them. If parents didn't play a role parenthood(might not have learned that word yet) wouldn't be such a big deal now would it kiddie?
2020-12-06 00:52
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Before you waste your breath with a reply. I will state all amd every thing stated can be found in your first repliers post. PSYCHOLOGY
2020-12-06 00:54
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Conversations usually evolve if there isn't a consensus. What you did instead was just say fuck it all let me just ignore everything this guy said after and just have a biased ass comment because of this ONE particular statement he said. Fuck yourself
2020-12-06 01:03
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But this conversation is going nowhere due to your narrow mindedness. You can argue the point towards one person. The rest of this forum disagrees with your baiting and I'm giving into it. Thats all that's going on
2020-12-06 01:08
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They disagreed with my very first post and after I explained it then they stopped because you can't prove my reasoning wrong can you. You just call me a baiter instead and that's about as far as your IQ goes. Like you're telling me a decade of meeting a shitload of different teachers and other kids has no affect on your life compared to your parents. Dumb
2020-12-06 01:11
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Nonono they stopped cause no one cares about a baiting burger. You have provided nothing besides your opinion. When facts get thrown at you repeat and complain what has been said numerous times. Just do me a favor. Don't drop out of school. College provides many opportunities. If you haven't already
2020-12-06 01:13
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Nah, because there's no counter to my argument. My own opinion and literally shitloads of other factual sources that can be counted towards the development of a person and nobody has once explained anything. What a loser
2020-12-06 01:15
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Provide some actual secondary sources. An entire major disagrees with you
2020-12-06 01:19
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Lmao, there's millions of different factors in that demographic. Race, country or state, rich or poor, having only one parent or none at all living w/ other family. Abuse or external factors like having parents with conditions, bad habits, or affiliation with drugs, gangs. The child him/herself can have multiple different conditions or personal inflictions due to childbirth or even while growing up. Even culture or religion can change inherently how your family treats you, even your gender. Now, parents don't fuckin have a say in whether you're gay or not, or whether you want to be a policeman or a lawyer, or a drug dealer and thief. A lot of outside sources influence those decisions, what the fuck does dad know about engineering or being a teacher when he works at a Target? Who says in the hood that a kid doesn't just suggest to you an easy way to make some money and you go along with it even though your parents said NOT to trust strangers. You call me narrow minded but in reality you're so fuckin shallow in your reasoning that it's an insult to anybody with an IQ. So did my parents raise me well? And I still became a piece of shit? Or did they raise me poorly, and I came out becoming a good fuckin person with great morals. Grow a brain.
2020-12-06 01:31
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None of those facotrs/out Come has anything to do with the development of your mind 1st race has nothing to do with psychology. Here's a fact. As a baby we are not born racist.. it is taught through your parents. Thank you. 2nd a birth defect is not a part of this discussion in your development. Thats a low blow to my cousin and a moronic statement. 3rd your career path is not psychological. 4th my iq is 127 so you look stupid. 5th. Obviously they raised you poorly and you exhibit their traits. If you didn't understand my sarcasm with you parents raising you great a few hours ago you are the dumbest ape on the planet
2020-12-06 01:47
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"None of those facotrs/out Come has anything to do with the development of your mind" stopped reading at that part, cause it's just so fuckin wrong, growing up around a ghetto and growing up in a gated neighborhood does affect your fuckin mind. Does your brain just fuckin turn off for the first 15 years of your life and it only listens to the parents? I'll be fuckin amazed if you had an IQ any higher than 70 because frankly speaking you're so ignorant on this subject that it's appalling. Have a good night you fucktard, I'm done trying to reason with idiots. Also go overdose or some shit, you're really the opposite of what a human being should act like.
2020-12-06 01:56
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Take some time and read like I did with yours. But anyway im done, you have the info I front you ignorant ape. Enlgihgen yourself so no one deals with your pathetic excuse of an argument. Goodnight burger. As you said I wait for the last response to win an argument. I don't need to. Your reply shows I won. Have a goodnight daddy in jail burger country. Shoot another school on your way to work at McDonald's.
2020-12-06 01:55
Outside factors are miniscule? You realize they start to meet other kids and teachers in kindergarten at the age of atleast 5-6 and they have those influences through literally their entire fuckin life onwards right? Beyond basic reading, and writing, and ways of acting, how much did your parents really did teach you? Or did teachers in school ACTUALLY teach you, or the NEWS, or TV SHOWS, or VIDEO GAMES or MOVIES. We don't live in the 17th century anymore. Like really? How fuckin moronic is your comment, now I don't even wanna know your opinions, fuck off from my life kid.
2020-12-06 01:00
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Like I said. After reading your reply you are a narrow minded egotistical burger who honestly knows nothing. Do just a kindergarten level of study in psychology. You are the worst baiter and I wasted my time filling you in with valuable informatiom
2020-12-06 01:05
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Yeah I'm glad one person can tell me how everybody in the world grows up in the most one dimensional non demographical way Just uninstall your internet browser
2020-12-06 01:07
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Considering 3 other people on this thread that I counted objects your view it makes you look even dumber saying one. I am the only one here who's trying to help you out here
2020-12-06 01:11
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You're basically the same person who says that If I respond to a comment and they don't respond back that means I'm automatically wrong. Good for you. Also your comment #93 is retarded. School teachers can teach you about life, we don't live in some fuckin communist country. Think for yourself for once.
2020-12-06 01:17
Schooling teachers you book work. Life teachers you street work. Understand that analogy mr burger?
2020-12-06 01:06
#31
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Germany I_car
Your childhood is a really important part of developing your personality and parents have a lot of influence
2020-12-05 23:20
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Singapore Am2de
+1
2020-12-05 23:25
Your personality doesn't develop from just what your parents do, why do you think so many kids literally give 2 shits about their parents, outside factors affect them much more at an early age, especially what they see and hear. The circumstances and possibilities are fuckin endless, and it makes this thread pointless.
2020-12-05 23:46
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#52
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Germany Effizienz
Calm down man
2020-12-05 23:59
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Make a better thread
2020-12-05 23:59
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#54
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Germany Effizienz
I just asked if you think your parents did y a good job raising you and not if your parents have a big influence on your personality.
2020-12-06 00:01
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Raising you also means forming you as an individual, but there's other factors that also make you into a human being, a lot of them have nothing to do with your parents. Do you agree that as a child there are a lot of things you learned and did and they are not because of your parents?
2020-12-06 00:02
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#56
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Germany Effizienz
MAn you really need to get your dick sucked
2020-12-06 00:04
11 replies
Your mom can do that for me later, too bad you can't answer a simple question.
2020-12-06 00:05
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#58
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Germany Effizienz
Hit the gym bro
2020-12-06 00:05
9 replies
I deadlift 400 and bench 225 10 reps 3 sets still can't answer my question though
2020-12-06 00:08
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#60
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Germany Effizienz
Sure bro
2020-12-06 00:12
7 replies
Ignore the ameriburger. Hes obviously on a sugar high spewing bullshit
2020-12-06 00:13
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#65
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Germany Effizienz
True 😀
2020-12-06 00:15
Lol, you sound like you don't even workout. Just some cunt smoking weed on HLTV with nothin better to do, go to bed
2020-12-06 00:15
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#66
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Germany Effizienz
Still cant read the thread ?
2020-12-06 00:15
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Sounds odd how you keep saying stupid shit. But that's pretty normal it seems, afterall this isn't your first account and you almost have as many comments as me in just a couple weeks.
2020-12-06 00:47
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#114
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Germany Effizienz
ok
2020-12-06 08:59
1 reply
nice bump loser
2020-12-06 09:44
#51
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Germany Effizienz
+1
2020-12-05 23:58
every time i see ur username u post some stupid / whiny stuff lol
2020-12-05 23:30
3 replies
ye and yours definitely isn't a baity whiny comment, serves a great purpose
2020-12-05 23:37
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bro u are so bitter :D
2020-12-05 23:55
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I just found it funny because clearly your comment was to just insult me for no reason. Nobody told you to be a hypocrite did they?
2020-12-05 23:56
idk 🙄😥
2020-12-05 22:55
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#29
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Brazil ghcnvbkn
yes, they did 😁👍
2020-12-05 23:18
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ty 🥰🥰🤘🏻
2020-12-06 01:32
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#109
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Brazil ghcnvbkn
np 😘😘🍆😏
2020-12-06 01:39
#42
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Germany flufluflu1
defo not.
2020-12-05 23:38
3 replies
men(( 😔😔🙏🏻
2020-12-06 01:32
#108
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Brazil ghcnvbkn
reported.
2020-12-06 01:38
nt gay
2020-12-10 14:31
#8
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Singapore Am2de
excellent men. When I become parent, I would raise my child similar to how my parents raised me.
2020-12-05 22:56
Not really.
2020-12-05 22:57
Oh hell yeah. They ALWAYS tell me and my sister that they are so proud of us.
2020-12-05 23:00
80%ish yes, Rest no. But there is always room for improvement anyway. Nobody is perfect.
2020-12-05 23:01
Not at all, but what matters is that they gave up or didnt just care
2020-12-05 23:04
I think not but they definetly could've been worse + I'll know completely when I start working and see for myself whether their behaviour is somehow understandable/justifiable.
2020-12-05 23:10
Mostly yes
2020-12-05 23:10
#24
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Romania csf
not really, but they didnt raise me bad either
2020-12-05 23:11
I think yes. But they could've done it better, I'm quite lazy
2020-12-05 23:13
my mom yes, my dad not
2020-12-05 23:13
1 reply
+1
2020-12-05 23:30
better than average, i can clearly see the mistakes they made now, but i can adapt to different kind of situations and behave properly
2020-12-05 23:18
#34
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Poland FitPolak
Yes
2020-12-05 23:23
My parents sucked at parenting, I basically had to raise myself after seeing all the things that my father did and kind of a person he is, he became my role model of everything I should not be so in a way yeah they succeeded
2020-12-05 23:27
In my look they did but we all have our own bad habits so maybe they didnt.
2020-12-05 23:29
My mother is stressed out and unable to work and my father is a car mechanic. Times have been tough but i can say that the past 5-6 years have been great tbh.
2020-12-05 23:44
#45
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Germany NotJuan
yes
2020-12-05 23:45
No, luckily enough i did a decent job taking care of myself, still do today
2020-12-05 23:45
Definetely.
2020-12-06 00:19
#70
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Russia NOD777
Mom yes. Dad KEKW
2020-12-06 00:22
#73
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Europe Nuskel
So-so. I think I was a bit too spoiled and should've learned to do more stuff, they wanted to make sure I lived extremely comfortably and I think it backfired a bit. Not that it's 100% their fault, I'm also partly responsible for that.
2020-12-06 00:30
thanks to them i now have social anxiety and severe depression, must be good , right?
2020-12-06 00:39
yes, they carried me to fpl, my nickname is Niko
2020-12-06 00:41
yes, im good man, little bit introvert, but still im good.
2020-12-06 00:44
#84
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Kuwait roye
when i join cs and i meet russians i know they did phenomenal they should be awarded nobel peace prize
2020-12-06 00:54
Yes, I can't say much about my dad, but my mom did an amazing job raising me
2020-12-06 00:55
#87
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Hungary szia
Yeah. Given me the support and freedom I needed.
2020-12-06 00:57
horrible job, not only they made me a person with anxiety, depression but also the values that they passed me aren't anything special, i had to learn it all myself.
2020-12-06 01:01
No but I dont think its their fault. I am not able to be helped
2020-12-06 01:01
i have 1 half brother and 1 half sister from my dads side, and one half brother on my moms side. grew up up in a big house with ok room dog legos and a family computer. many friends too. eventually around 12 they divorced and everyone had moved out since i was 16, im atleast 6 years younger than the second youngest sibling. because i was basically their 4th child they had a very "do wtf u want except smoking and learn from it" and it made me learn alot by myself without having a forced world picture, while having a stable early life. now my life is pretty shaky but i think im very mature. now many friends slip away bc different schools etc, and other interests.
2020-12-06 01:15
i mean in some ways yes but in other critical areas nah also i just think they really should not have had kids or met for that matter they split up when i was 7 and was officially divorced when i was 10 i don't have a single good memory of them married
2020-12-06 01:15
Yes she has, it was just ma and grandma, a few things I was lacking but they've done the best they possibly could. Ma is saint.
2020-12-06 01:35
yes very good job. i got good manners, im honest and i dont do drugs/smoke/drink and they never forbid anything thats what good parenting is
2020-12-06 02:24
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first non bait comment from you mikey
2020-12-06 09:23
Ye
2020-12-06 09:14
yes although a little too protective and now I am not very sociable
2020-12-06 09:23
Honestly not, but its not like they wanted to
2020-12-06 09:51
#123
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Macau fAKEs2j
yes, i0m the best drug dealer in the country, reach around 200k per month, so they're rich.
2020-12-10 03:47
#125
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Peru devbot
I do not know. In part it may be, another part I think I owe it to the people I related to as a child. People from the neighborhood, friends, teachers. Although I do not consider that I had a good education, but I consider that those experiences made me normal person, I mean not insane, with vices (except internet), respecting people, things like that.
2020-12-10 04:13
#128
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United States Fule
Yes cause their only goal was to make me happy and now I live with my friends in a house we all got together and bought and have LANs 24/7.
2020-12-10 07:29
They did fine. Worst thing they did was homeschool me, since it made me a socially awkward fuck. Also I feel that my parents are better at parenting young kids than older kids. They're kinda boring religious people that I rarely talk to, even though I still live with them.
2020-12-10 13:55
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