Lmao, there's millions of different factors in that demographic. Race, country or state, rich or poor, having only one parent or none at all living w/ other family. Abuse or external factors like having parents with conditions, bad habits, or affiliation with drugs, gangs.
The child him/herself can have multiple different conditions or personal inflictions due to childbirth or even while growing up. Even culture or religion can change inherently how your family treats you, even your gender.
Now, parents don't fuckin have a say in whether you're gay or not, or whether you want to be a policeman or a lawyer, or a drug dealer and thief. A lot of outside sources influence those decisions, what the fuck does dad know about engineering or being a teacher when he works at a Target? Who says in the hood that a kid doesn't just suggest to you an easy way to make some money and you go along with it even though your parents said NOT to trust strangers.
You call me narrow minded but in reality you're so fuckin shallow in your reasoning that it's an insult to anybody with an IQ.
So did my parents raise me well? And I still became a piece of shit? Or did they raise me poorly, and I came out becoming a good fuckin person with great morals. Grow a brain.