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ex crush has texted me
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Turkey sonbafrali 
I was crushed for almost one year. She has refused me two times. She texted after several months and asked a silly question. I replied in a formal way and I didn't talk much because I have another relationship and I'm happy. I didn't mention my new relationship as a gentleman. What is her purpose in writing to me? I wonder but I don't care actually.
2021-02-26 10:06
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2021-02-26 10:08
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Gandhi
2021-02-26 11:53
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Norway TheDEA
Does she have a instagram account with + 1000 followers?
2021-02-26 10:08
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the streets
2021-02-26 10:11
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#9
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Norway TheDEA
You're fit but my gosh dont you know it
2021-02-26 10:15
#3
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Russia VelsVivard
I'm in a similar position but only it's me who wrote to her and I know what I want but I also know that it leads nowhere.
2021-02-26 10:08
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Spirit fans always get what they want.
2021-02-26 10:58
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Russia VelsVivard
Your words to god!
2021-02-26 11:46
Jovik, is she underage?
2021-02-26 11:49
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#52
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Russia VelsVivard
Was.
2021-02-26 12:47
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What happened to her??? 😳😳😳
2021-02-26 12:57
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18 now
2021-02-26 13:05
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(joke)
2021-02-26 13:11
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(also joke)
2021-02-26 13:11
Its all good then.
2021-02-26 13:04
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#64
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Russia VelsVivard
It's all good anyway.
2021-02-26 13:51
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Expected reply from Jovik.
2021-02-26 13:52
#4
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Netherlands BigBoyTies
We can't really say anything when we don't know what she said.
2021-02-26 10:09
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#13
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Turkey sonbafrali
long story but I'll try to explain short. she said that her father told somebody wants her to marry (yeah, this tradition is about to die but in Turkey asking fathers about girls is normal and my father and her father knows each other very well). She asked me if it is me or not. I said no, absolutely not. I'm not sure the story was true. Maybe she baits me.
2021-02-26 10:19
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#15
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Netherlands BigBoyTies
Pretty sure she was curious. This has nothing to do with her wanting you back or so.
2021-02-26 10:23
hard baiter that girl. but i will give you this comparison that will make you realise: you are a bro, an hltv user she is a Spike,gg user not a chance. youre better than thinking about this baits
2021-02-26 10:25
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spike.gg omegalul
2021-02-26 10:34
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#31
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Indonesia woooi15
playvalorant.gg
2021-02-26 10:46
hahaha spike.gg
2021-02-26 13:13
ofc it is bait, should've said you're already married to 2 other girls or some shit. Don't take her seriously at all. Better, move on and delete her.
2021-02-26 10:30
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Finland V1lske
that girl is bigger baiter than blamef
2021-02-26 10:40
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maybe 1. s1mple 2. this girl 3. blameF ???
2021-02-26 10:52
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+1
2021-02-26 12:19
She's asking if its you, and if it is she has time to suicide herself rather than be with you. GG
2021-02-26 10:56
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#38
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Turkey sonbafrali
ahaha xD :D :D. yeah maybe...
2021-02-26 10:58
She's stringing you along. Walk away, especially if you're in a happy relationship now, she might be a bag of crazy,
2021-02-26 13:54
yeah i like those moments bro 😎 had litereally the same expirience last month, but now idgaf about her
2021-02-26 10:09
She is probably bored and needs someone to entertain her
2021-02-26 10:11
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Greece Graecos
"I didn't mention my new relationship as a gentleman" -> That's the opposite of being a gentleman here, dude
2021-02-26 10:12
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Turkey sonbafrali
man wtf. If she asks me to let's try something then I'll tell her about my relationship. she asked a question It was like bait so I cut the conversation short.
2021-02-26 10:22
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Greece Graecos
Your behavior is legit, don't get me wrong. But it's not a gentleman move, a gentleman would have prevented her from having fake hopes
2021-02-26 10:24
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#23
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Turkey sonbafrali
I guess she still doesn't like me. If she learns that I found another one maybe she feels bad and starts to think differently. Human psychology you know. I don't want it to happen. I'll be nobody for her several months later anyway.
2021-02-26 10:33
+1 ur baiting her by not telling.
2021-02-26 10:51
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Greece Graecos
Exactly
2021-02-26 11:25
Because she knows you will reply. When she feels bored/lonely she will text some simps(like you) to get some attention.
2021-02-26 10:17
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United Kingdom novaseer
revolutionary idea that nobody on HLTV is ever going to say: maybe she just wants to talk to people not everything to do with the other sex is relationship related
2021-02-26 10:24
First you still got her number/insta after she refused you two times why? after the first refuse i would delete her and forget, you are the prize, her loss and now why would you reply, the bitch need attention, ignore her.
2021-02-26 10:34
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#28
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Turkey sonbafrali
I deleted her number but I didn't block it. You can communicate with anyone in 2021. it's so easy.
2021-02-26 10:39
she was probably thinking about u
2021-02-26 10:35
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Ukraine Dert_
> ex crush has texted me xaxaxaxa P.S. yt3.ggpht.com/ytc/AAUvwnhmZEgnIE4eY-ok-2..
2021-02-26 10:37
First of all, there are several potential scenarios as to why she texted you. The reason she gave would be a perfectly good excuse If it were true (which we obviously can’t know). You’ve already pursued her twice, so if someone has inquired her father about marrying her you’re clearly a potential suspect. In this scenario, I don’t see anything weird about her contacting you or your response to her. The second potential scenario is that she’s seeking attention. Sometimes we all do. If this is the case, she made up a reason that was meant to make you jealous and maybe pursue her again. This does not mean she changed her mind and wants you all of a sudden. In this scenario, your response to her was also correct. Tldr - you’ve done everything right, no further contact is necessary.
2021-02-26 11:07
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Israel ZiinTotH
+1 best post. OP already has a gf and is attention whoring in hltv, just ignore and continue on with your life
2021-02-26 12:52
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Turkey sonbafrali
very nice answer thanks. I don't think that she is lying and more likely the first scenario is real. maybe her father is baiting. she said that she is not sure if someone actually talked with her father or not. she also said, "maybe my father wants to know if I want to marry someone". she lives with her family and she is at marriage age. Parents always want children married, especially in Turkey.
2021-02-26 13:42
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Poland pimaZo
Mb she just like you or miss you as a person, not in romantic way. Or she was drunk and thought about you. If she writes more ask her why she does it, tell about your relationship and than figure out that he want to get in tuch again with her or not really
2021-02-26 11:29
she missclicked
2021-02-26 11:50
probably just pinged you for some ego boost, knowing that some guy even after a year still cares about her boosts her "market" price and perception about herself. best thing would be just to ignore her message completely. if she had called and just wanted to chat about silly things say you're busy and you'll call her back. strange that you are having those kind of questions even when you are in relationship already.
2021-02-26 12:03
She might be quite bored with nothing to do and no one to give her attention So she sits down and remembers you all of a sudden because you were one who used to give her attention
2021-02-26 13:08
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Bosnia and Herzegovina Foxxyownz
she hasn't found a main guy yet so she's desperately hitting up her friendzones for some attention and possibly penis (but probably not)
2021-02-26 13:59
She doesn't mean anything. I was in the same situations they dont mean shit. You did the right thing by answering formally.
2021-02-26 14:23
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