"in and out"
-random wise man
Does she have a instagram account with + 1000 followers?
I'm in a similar position but only it's me who wrote to her and I know what I want but I also know that it leads nowhere.
We can't really say anything when we don't know what she said.
yeah i like those moments bro 😎
had litereally the same expirience last month, but now idgaf about her
She is probably bored and needs someone to entertain her
"I didn't mention my new relationship as a gentleman" -> That's the opposite of being a gentleman here, dude
Because she knows you will reply. When she feels bored/lonely she will text some simps(like you) to get some attention.
revolutionary idea that nobody on HLTV is ever going to say: maybe she just wants to talk to people
not everything to do with the other sex is relationship related
First you still got her number/insta after she refused you two times why? after the first refuse i would delete her and forget, you are the prize, her loss and now why would you reply, the bitch need attention, ignore her.
she was probably thinking about u
First of all, there are several potential scenarios as to why she texted you. The reason she gave would be a perfectly good excuse If it were true (which we obviously can’t know). You’ve already pursued her twice, so if someone has inquired her father about marrying her you’re clearly a potential suspect. In this scenario, I don’t see anything weird about her contacting you or your response to her.
The second potential scenario is that she’s seeking attention. Sometimes we all do. If this is the case, she made up a reason that was meant to make you jealous and maybe pursue her again. This does not mean she changed her mind and wants you all of a sudden. In this scenario, your response to her was also correct.
Tldr - you’ve done everything right, no further contact is necessary.
Mb she just like you or miss you as a person, not in romantic way. Or she was drunk and thought about you. If she writes more ask her why she does it, tell about your relationship and than figure out that he want to get in tuch again with her or not really
probably just pinged you for some ego boost, knowing that some guy even after a year still cares about her boosts her "market" price and perception about herself. best thing would be just to ignore her message completely. if she had called and just wanted to chat about silly things say you're busy and you'll call her back. strange that you are having those kind of questions even when you are in relationship already.
She might be quite bored with nothing to do and no one to give her attention
So she sits down and remembers you all of a sudden because you were one who used to give her attention
she hasn't found a main guy yet so she's desperately hitting up her friendzones for some attention and possibly penis (but probably not)
She doesn't mean anything. I was in the same situations they dont mean shit. You did the right thing by answering formally.