Best thing you can do is tell her how you feel. I know it's easier to say than do, but trust me the longer you wait the harder the pain is gonna be if she rejects you..
just ask her if she likes you, ez
she's obviously into you and she is shy, she expects you to make the move. next time you have fun and you both are in the right mood don't overcomplicate it just do it.
can u afford buy her some food ?
in brazil if u buy a chick a mcdonalds or a pizza, they kiss you.
Jump in to it , it seems like she likes u back :)
so ur problem is that you arent sure if she likes you back and your not the type to just straight up tell her? I honesly dont know what to do to push it, i guess you can wait for her to make the move if she realy likes you but that can take a lot of time
Just keep being with her and being friends, if it was meant to be it will happen and you will know, then tell her
thank you for reaching out brother, your message even got me to reassess myself as a single guy and I'm beginning to see that the best strategy for you is to take your chance bruh. Statistically, you get 0 of 0 shots you make. In contrast, game theory models have found that we can optimize our likelihood in independent events and finding the best equilibria by choosing to act. Now, If you are not a guy to straight up tell a girl that or just kiss her out of nothing, why not trying something romantic? Make a surprise? Maybe your dick in a box? I don't my King! Get creative! But make sure to go out there and try it! Alright?
if does not work, ouch, that will hurt like hell, but you will be able move on
She is prob shy or scared to take the next step, try asking her nicely if she want's to make out or if she likes you, etc...
just tell her how you feel mens
Was there a flirtatious vibe when you hanged out or were you both acting in a friendly way? Not gonna lie you dont have much time to act since you have met her 8-9 times and you didnt even kiss at least, so she will think that you are scared and not masculine enough to make a move(friendzone garanteed). Be more flirty and seductive, let your charm play and go in for a kiss. The method I use is: get closer to her, put 1 hand on her hip and play with her hair with the other one. Then she will have a few seconds to think and see if she consents or no. Then you go for the kiss. Be direct about your intention, dont let any women waste your time because this is your most valuable currency
what I can tell you from her behavior is that she seems to like you and she might still have feelings for you but it could also be that she likes you as a friend. Honestly in this situation you should just ask her if she still has interest in you like 3 years ago. If you're too shy try to make a joke and remind her of when she had a crush on you maybe from her reaction you can tell if she likes you still. (I'm real girl so take my advice)
You are now her bro. Congratulation
mate ur over thinking it just go for it. just ask her out on a date
Month ago you posted thread about old woman. So I have question: how it ended up? Did you go there, or you were scared she is senile, like your neighbours told u, and you didnt go there? If you were there, what she wanted from you, what did she say to you?
I got no advice for you and as a 10k+ commenter probably never will, but nonetheless gl mens
u hef 2 tikle her eerlobe
Seriously you need to keep it real. Why would you waste time on girls when you can do something to improve yourself or something similar. I used my youth effectively programming. Then the time to get a woman came, and I just took the attitude like you can't win unless you try, and simply dropped my fears and doubt, and went ahead with my wife. I love her, and I don't feel the need to look at other women, etc.. As some people already said in said thread you can't win without trying, but when it comes to women you really need to think twice, waste time on trivialities or do something that benefits you.
bro idk if ur trolling or not , but if u need an opener , u said u netflix and chill rn with her sometimes ... try putting a movie with highschool prom and mention like hey u remember on our prom night ... u said u liked me but i was a stupid kid back then and shy , i liked u too but was afraid to say it .. im wondering if u maybe still feel the same ?
worth a shot if like her and u feel like shes a bit romantic ... idk
Coming from a girl, the best thing to do is tell her about your feelings and ask her if she feels the same way. Hope it works out for you!
im just gonna leave this here
"on my prom that one girl came up to me and told me that she wanted to take the chance to tell me that she's been into me ever since I came to her school"
"A few months ago, she got snapchat and added me and we wrote each other "
"Maybe a month ago, she wrote me on whatsapp bc she saw on snapchat that I'm always doing a lot of University work, if maybe we'd want to meet and learn together"
-she likes you since she saw you
-she started talking to you
-she asked you out (study)
what more u want?
what, u think she just wants to be your friend? LMAOOO
Ask her out romantically, or someone else will.
Go for it dude. You probably feel scared but trust me, once you ask her, rejection or acceptance, you will feel good in about two days. From a guy who got rejected 6 times, honest. I'm telling you, shoot your shot. And btw, your situation seems way more manageable than mine. GO FOR IT!
Also. Please update the thread if you do go for it.
We have very similar stories my friend, and I am writing this 3 weeks after she started ghosting me.
First of all, we liked eachother in highschool, she told me that twice, but I didnt want to make the step because some of my good friends liked her you know, and I wasnt really thinking about these things.
We had been talking for a year now I think, since corona started, as a friends and with a little flirt.
Now, since january, she started living alone, we went out many times and slept together twice. And we talked a lot. And I really started to like her a lot again.
Now, shes been ghosting me for 3 weeks. I have had very different emotions lately.
TLDR. You might try, but a lot of time has passed and the feelings are not the same.
tell her youre enjoying being with her
she just wants to take things slow then. She's definitely into you. Ask her out on a date, maybe a couple, then ask her out. She will probably start sexing you after a few months. That's how American girls are tho, idk what the dating culture is like in Europe. You just gotta have a strong juice game, girls are pretty easy to talk to. If you're charming enough, she'll put out