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hello smart people from hltv,
Finished school 3 yrs ago, on my prom that one girl came up to me and told me that she wanted to take the chance to tell me that she's been into me ever since I came to her school 3 yrs ago. Was retarded back then, rejected her and only saw her by chance once in a while in my city.
A few months ago, she got snapchat and added me and we wrote each other once every few weeks one or two messages but not much.
Maybe a month ago, she wrote me on whatsapp bc she saw on snapchat that I'm always doing a lot of University work, if maybe we'd want to meet and learn together. I said yes why not, so we met and had a lot of fun, so we met again a few days afterwards and at least I for one really started to like her.
We've met I think like 8 or 9 times in the last weeks, first only for learning, then we started to chill, then eat and cook and watching netflix and drink coffee together and so on.
I tried to get closer to her, but she doesn't really do the same back and such mostly feels one way coming from my side, but at the end of the evening she always asks me when we wanna meet again nontheless and still writes me, sends me things on instagram etc, so I feel like if she weren't interested in me at all she wouldnt.
What should I do? I'm not sure if she really knows that I really like her, but I'm really not a guy to straight up tell a girl that or just kiss her out of nothing like a friend told me to do so.
just ask her if she likes you, ez
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Then get rejected and years later become a certified wizard! Ez lyfe!
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Yeah did so before and she also often paid for food or coffee for me so
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ok, i'll be serious now.
You are wasting time, just ask her out, but be very specifc, "i like you, more than a friend, and i would like a date some time"
the NO, u already have, just go for the yes, if things dont go as u expect it, so what ? better than stay in the situation you are.
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Thats relatable lmao
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yessir youre gonna like it
+1 but since our country developing and almost becoming a 1st world, they want with fries and soda, only the burger is not working anymore :(
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lol
sounds like really trying times in brazil im sorry
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True but I always wonder if maybe i overinterpretate it, I know she's also got other male friends so I always wonder if she not also just sees me as one like them
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Yeah sounds reasonable, thats what I tried before, like when we were sitting on my couch and I told her sth I put my hand on her lap and when I wanted to show her sth on my phone i laid against her etc. but she doesn't do the same to me so I really became unsure.
On the other hand she always asks me when we wanna meet again, If I were in a position like her and wouldnt like it I wouldnt ask when to meet again so Im really conflicted
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Yeah true really gotta be more direct the next time we meet
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Yeah thats what I hoped for bc she already did back in the days
Never had much luck trying myself, not once didn't get rejected when trying to approach girls I like so I'm afraid to fuck it up once more
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The only way i really managed to approach a girl i liked was when we both got really drunk at our class farewell party (absolutely do not recommend getting drunk even tho it gives you the confidence that you need) so i am not sure how to help you, if you really dont feel like making the move you have to wait for her to make it or wait for the right moment when both of you feel like you want a kiss, if you never experienced this moment dont worry, its really easy to tell when it comes, from then on you roll
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Yeah had this moment once before with a girl, but just like you we were really drunk and she made it really really obvious she was interested in me, being completely hammered it obv was way easier just to come over myself and do it than it would be now
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thanks bro :)
Just keep being with her and being friends, if it was meant to be it will happen and you will know, then tell her
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Thats what I thought a hundred times before, not gonna lie bc of that literally like 60% of my friends are female, but just gonna wanna go for something now once for all but am too afraid of rejection
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True
Damn I feel this. Also have so many female friends for the same reason.
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I have none but asking her out instantly and getting frriend zoned seems like an ez way to make friends
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Just because you're in the friend zone doesn't mean you're friends ;)
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really?
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yes, it can also be a polite way for the girl to say "I don't want to see you ever again"
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yeh but if you say can we at least be friends, she will be relieved that you accepted rejection and probably be your friend
thank you for reaching out brother, your message even got me to reassess myself as a single guy and I'm beginning to see that the best strategy for you is to take your chance bruh. Statistically, you get 0 of 0 shots you make. In contrast, game theory models have found that we can optimize our likelihood in independent events and finding the best equilibria by choosing to act. Now, If you are not a guy to straight up tell a girl that or just kiss her out of nothing, why not trying something romantic? Make a surprise? Maybe your dick in a box? I don't my King! Get creative! But make sure to go out there and try it! Alright?
if does not work, ouch, that will hurt like hell, but you will be able move on
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wtf is that a copypasta
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wtf, 100% original
have a nice day
-brofessor
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respect good content
just tell her how you feel mens
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If it were so easy
Was there a flirtatious vibe when you hanged out or were you both acting in a friendly way? Not gonna lie you dont have much time to act since you have met her 8-9 times and you didnt even kiss at least, so she will think that you are scared and not masculine enough to make a move(friendzone garanteed). Be more flirty and seductive, let your charm play and go in for a kiss. The method I use is: get closer to her, put 1 hand on her hip and play with her hair with the other one. Then she will have a few seconds to think and see if she consents or no. Then you go for the kiss. Be direct about your intention, dont let any women waste your time because this is your most valuable currency
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and dont forget to look deep in the eyes
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that's where the message is delivered to her
more or less, at first way much than now, so I feel like if I wait any longer my chance is gone once and for all
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Women are more emotional then guys, wich means that one day shes in love with you and the next day she couldnt care less, so strike while the iron is hot. She probably talks/sleeps with a couple of other guys already so just make the move if you think shes worth it. And if she rejects you, you just stay calm and say:''Its alright im not gonna do something you dont want to do.'' and then you leave and never contact her again, no matter how big the urge is. Move on and find another girl who will desire you. GL
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Last parts a bit harsh but generally you're right
what I can tell you from her behavior is that she seems to like you and she might still have feelings for you but it could also be that she likes you as a friend. Honestly in this situation you should just ask her if she still has interest in you like 3 years ago. If you're too shy try to make a joke and remind her of when she had a crush on you maybe from her reaction you can tell if she likes you still. (I'm real girl so take my advice)
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if it were so easy just to ask :/
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I mean you just have to ask it's not that hard, I doubt she will make the first step because last time you rejected her
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makes sense you're propably right thx :)
You are now her bro. Congratulation
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xD
mate ur over thinking it just go for it. just ask her out on a date
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True
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Thanks for the interest
hltv.org/forums/threads/2416987/old-woma..
I got no advice for you and as a 10k+ commenter probably never will, but nonetheless gl mens
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girls love hltv forum users))
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I need to see it to believe it mens
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disgusting comment luke.
what would your mother say? she didn't raise you that way!""!
Seriously you need to keep it real. Why would you waste time on girls when you can do something to improve yourself or something similar. I used my youth effectively programming. Then the time to get a woman came, and I just took the attitude like you can't win unless you try, and simply dropped my fears and doubt, and went ahead with my wife. I love her, and I don't feel the need to look at other women, etc.. As some people already said in said thread you can't win without trying, but when it comes to women you really need to think twice, waste time on trivialities or do something that benefits you.
bro idk if ur trolling or not , but if u need an opener , u said u netflix and chill rn with her sometimes ... try putting a movie with highschool prom and mention like hey u remember on our prom night ... u said u liked me but i was a stupid kid back then and shy , i liked u too but was afraid to say it .. im wondering if u maybe still feel the same ?
worth a shot if like her and u feel like shes a bit romantic ... idk
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If it would be so easy :/
Thank you!
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im just gonna leave this here
"on my prom that one girl came up to me and told me that she wanted to take the chance to tell me that she's been into me ever since I came to her school"
"A few months ago, she got snapchat and added me and we wrote each other "
"Maybe a month ago, she wrote me on whatsapp bc she saw on snapchat that I'm always doing a lot of University work, if maybe we'd want to meet and learn together"
resume:
-she likes you since she saw you
-she started talking to you
-she asked you out (study)
what more u want?
what, u think she just wants to be your friend? LMAOOO
Ask her out romantically, or someone else will.
#trustme
Go for it dude. You probably feel scared but trust me, once you ask her, rejection or acceptance, you will feel good in about two days. From a guy who got rejected 6 times, honest. I'm telling you, shoot your shot. And btw, your situation seems way more manageable than mine. GO FOR IT!
Also. Please update the thread if you do go for it.
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Thx bro, I know how it feels, stopped counting at some point how often I so far got rejected
We have very similar stories my friend, and I am writing this 3 weeks after she started ghosting me.
First of all, we liked eachother in highschool, she told me that twice, but I didnt want to make the step because some of my good friends liked her you know, and I wasnt really thinking about these things.
We had been talking for a year now I think, since corona started, as a friends and with a little flirt.
Now, since january, she started living alone, we went out many times and slept together twice. And we talked a lot. And I really started to like her a lot again.
Now, shes been ghosting me for 3 weeks. I have had very different emotions lately.
TLDR. You might try, but a lot of time has passed and the feelings are not the same.
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Yeah thats what I fear too, I'm very certain that at the very least its not like when we were in school, I remember her telling me in English class that she loves me and I literally thought she was joking and laughingly walked away, I feel soo bad for this nowadays but I literally thought she just wanted to prank me. Also she suddenly went to the same gym as me even though its nowhere the closest to her home etc.
I for one dont get signs but overinterpretate everything completely negative, on mondays the Gyms will reopen in my state, but you have to make an "appointment" for a certain timeperiod that you are there and there's limited capacity etc.
We agreed that we wanna go together once they reopen, so I phoned her, she said yes 7pm is perfect fine, one hour later she messages me that she had internet problems bc she wasnt home and now that she wanted to book the 7pm timeslot is full and she booked somewhen else, I'm propably just overinterpretating everything but in my head I keep on thinking that maybe she did it on purpose but I just dont know
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If it keeps happening then its a sign, but dont think about it wgen it happens some times.
Thats how it started for me, I asked her for an evening walk on the beach, she suddenly didnt answer for 1 day.
Then we talked again, and we wanted to drink and watch netflix. When that day came, she didnt respond and now ghosting me complitely.
Maybe I was too strong, shes working and I am dying alone in online university classes.
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I'm sorry, I know how it feels :/ Its shit, its always just like over night girls see someone else, completely forget about you and dont care at all anymore
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Did it more or less, when she asked last time whether I've got time from now on bc I've got my Uni exams, I told her that I dont care bc I'd always make time for her, she smiled and said "aww" but not sure if she really picked that up
she just wants to take things slow then. She's definitely into you. Ask her out on a date, maybe a couple, then ask her out. She will probably start sexing you after a few months. That's how American girls are tho, idk what the dating culture is like in Europe. You just gotta have a strong juice game, girls are pretty easy to talk to. If you're charming enough, she'll put out
