I try not to think about it.
I have many friends like this. Some are lonely and just can't find the right girl, but most are happy to be free and have sex without commitment with different sexual partners.
Alcohol, drugs and lot of activities. Just keeping yourself too fucked up and too busy to care
I see u want to be prepared for ur future mr jovik/c
Dw u still have like 10 years to avoid it
Also hope u ve been missing me
i wasn't in a rly serious relationship until i was 25 either, so what.
never force a relationship just for the sake of having a relationship, that's something many women do unconsciously for various reasons and it's wrong on many levels.
just enjoy yourself, being alone is the best time to figure out yourself and build your character.
if the right person comes around who is worthy of your time and effort you will know it, until then fuck them.
Why would you want to get married before 25? I am 24 and can't imagine marrying a girl in the next 2-3 years.
I learned early in life that relationship are not needed, so I became a loner focusing only on boxing and gym and don't care about shit anymore. I'm feeling the best I ever did. but I'm also not really saying no, if some girl comes around and everything clicks I'm sure gonna try it. But I don't have expectation anymore in others, I just do my own thing. if u can't be alone, it's a bad sign my men and u need to fix it.
Why people have that need of being in a relationship? It should come naturally. If it doesn't happen at 25 don't rush it because you will regret it in the long run 9/10 times.
Loneliness is better than troubled relationships
im 26 never had a girlfriend. i used to do alot of drugs and smoke tons of weed instead. now im looking for a gf
I'm 24 soon i'll be 25 and i can see myself being alone my whole life .. man!!
imagine being single lmfao
loneliness is fucked up man,
Alright, when I say single, I mean having no friends either. Do you still exist? Or those who were never engaged before a single time?
I'm 25 been single for a long time and I'm doing good, I'm used to loneliness and I like it.
I found out there's alot of benefits living lonely such as having more time for you to learn things about yourself and the world and do things that you like or makes you a healthier human.
I have not became anti social, I still like being around good peoples but If I have to be around bad peoples I prefer to stay alone.
I learned that being around bad peoples can fuck your life and drain your energy so be careful.
I also know that you can't love others unless you love yourself already, being alone help with that aswell because you connect with yourself way more and deeper than being with someone or peoples all the time.
Lmao, why is it even a problem?
been single for around 6 years now, i just dont really care anymore, it's even hard to imagine being WITH someone at this point , i just really got used to be alone and i actually have a good time
so many coping incels pretending to be single by choice
way more freedom if u depend on yourself.
nobody can be like me more than me so I prefer being alone
you make it sound like it's mandatory to have a partner when you're 25+.
being alone is better than being with wrong person. i've been there for a year and i prefer not to look back. even if i do i think of it as a lesson.
i think the best thing is to keep the balance. because when you get into serious relationship you commit yourself into that and it takes a lot of energy, time etc. so you can't really spend a lot of time with yourself, which leads to very slow self progression/improvement.
when it's the opposite, you're alone and you can do whatever you want (you can fully commit yourself into something and improve a lot). but eventually being alone for a long period makes life seem stale and you start feeling less and less productive. because love makes us stronger (not smarter tho)
i am 25 and never got girlfriend because im ugly :(
Move to japan where 50% are virgins
Andrei Tarkovsky once said: "Learn to be alone, enjoy solitude"
And I always think about the words he said when it comes to loneliness and at the time he was so right.
“I don’t know… I think I’d like to say only that they should learn to be alone and try to spend as much time as possible by themselves,” the director replied. “I think one of the faults of young people today is that they try to come together around events that are noisy, almost aggressive at times. This desire to be together in order to not feel alone is an unfortunate symptom, in my opinion.
“Every person needs to learn from childhood how to spend time with oneself. That doesn’t mean he should be lonely, but that he shouldn’t grow bored with himself because people who grow bored in their own company seem to me in danger, from a self-esteem point of view.”
i am 25 and i am currently single. I had some dates previously in my life, and only 1 was really satisfying. Right now i have different things that concern me more - study/work/cs. so i dont have time and energy to invest in relations i picture. after i have everything settled in my life i go for relations.
Yep still single, not even bad looking or overweight or anything, just don't fancy anyone and there isn't a girl that is interested in me either. +Covid +I am in University +I work don't have really that much time either. It's sad sometimes, because I eventually want kids, but yeah.. Like one wise
man said once> IT IIIIS WHAT IT IIIS
Lol nice try reinforcing your views.. Stay negative..
At this point, I've already had a long term loving relationship that slowly faded, broke away from poverty without even wasting 4 years to study, had and still have a good job that allows me to live by myself and pretty much do whatever I want, traveled everywhere I wanted to.
Now by all means I've reached the peak and have no motivation to do anything else, if I die tomorrow I will be satisfied. The only question is how to get through all those years from now until my death, and I have no idea.
Shed the the oneitus mind set and you will be happy
The best time i had in my relationship was before i had the relationship
if u base ur well being on another person, u have a big big problem in life.
30 here, i studied until i was 26, then i made my way working in the field i love. Now i have a really great job, loads of cash and a successful heart operation. Im 30 but i can finally do what i want whenever i want. I'll take my time to enjoy being free of responsability before i start depending on someone else. One nighter only and i dont want kids. More money and freedom, thats all i want.
i saw on hltv a quote from jim carrey
“Solitude is dangerous. It’s very addictive. It becomes a habit after you realise how peaceful and calm it is. It’s like you don’t want to deal with people anymore because they drain your energy.”
damn this represents me
people just talk too loud and too much, but being with the bois every now and then is always healthy
ah and people who gossip and are too envious just disgust me
I'm just too busy and tired to care about relationships, there are so many more things to enjoy in the moment
im 25 and havent had a gf or been close with a girl since I was 16. Sometimes the loneliness is very painful to be honest, but if I dont think about it I'm ok. For some reason girls just arent interested in me, I dont think its an attractive thing either since plenty of unattractive guys have girlfriends.
As in never in a relationship before that or become single after 25?
i meet so many people through work every day and i never feel lonely.
i actually enjoy living alone.
i can do whatever i want when i want.
i have my own routine and peace.
also i look for a decent standard for girls.
like im not a desperate guy who picks any 6/10 girl that smiles at me. beyond +25 you are at an age that you look for girls that are future-proof.
personality, looks and behaviour, all must fit.
I don't really care ,although some days I have the thought of "hm wouldn't it be nice to hug someone right now?" .
I'm trying to not think about it. Have bigger problems than not being in a relationship
I’m not 25 but if I were to guess, probably due to porn, trauma or don’t see a purpose unfortunately.
I mean I was lonely for a while because I was over weight.
After a while I couldn't take the shit anymore so I got myself back in shape.
Since then I been able to get laid many times but the thing is after a while of these girls I become more unhappy and bored of them.
They require so much attention and really are impossible to keep happy, majority of females as well when they go on their periods turn into witch doctors and do all types of psychological damage to you.
Being lonely is so hard to cope with, I have friends and shit but I just haven't found a woman I would ever be interested in with being with long term, after few months you start to see their hoe tendencies as well which is really what makes me walk away from them.
Intelligent loneliness is better than stupid society.
well i am 19 and have changed 4 gf in last 2 years. I have good seniors in school and in neighborhood who are at the age, mentioned here.
once u get involved in daily grinding for bread and butter, all these thoughts disappear. Being single is not depressing or worry about, it is all about happiness and time.
well my dad said that it is normal after leaving the forge. i think that if you enjoy the lifes alone it should not be a problem at all.
I can't stand being around dumb people irl. :)
I'm single and 25 and so far the older I get the better being single is. Sex is easy enough, and I get companionship from my family and friends.
I have more money and freedom than when I was younger which is probably why. I guess if you work 10 hours a day in an office then go home to no one it would be depressing.
Well i feel the same way and im freshly 21.. fuck
Work on bettering yourself, nothing else matters.
I had many relationships, but I had unlucky run overall. So I'm alone for life now since I don't trust girls at my age, and its the smartest thing you can do.
I'm 27. I've never had a girlfriend and I'm fine
Yes, I am in the age range you mentioned. I don't really enjoy being alone, but I can't approach a woman when I know I don't have financial stability. CSGO has helped me manage loneliness until recently.
Im 19 wich is not the same thing as 25 but for the past 5-6 years Ive had 0 friends, 0 girlfriends and I talked with my parents Once a week. And im kinda fine with I dont think that things will change in the future because Im doing the same stuff every day and I dont really wanna change them
What's wrong with being alone? The fact that you need someone to be with you only indicates your weakness. Also, what's the point of living with a girl who was sexed by tons of guys before you?
Not there, but in 7 years I will be
Been in relationship most of my adult life. Single 3 years, 33, definitely don’t want another one anytime soon.
Stopped trying when my heart broke, thought it would just take time but now a year and a half later im still shitty mentally. I don't feel the excitment of trying anymore.
Relations only gives me headache.
Its a fact that lonely people lives less and has worse health
So be a man.. grills like real men. You can be a little rude to the them, they like it. Never be afraid of anything, grills prefer alphas. Talk to them like they are a little shit
Everyone, single or not, are lonely. Their thoughts are their own, their feelings are their own. They can try share them, but this is impossible beyond a tiny percentage of what is truly going on inside.
We are all lonely, just accept it, it will make it a lot easier to cope with life.
What's wrong with people being alone? People who need company at all are the ones who cannot live with themselves and use other people to distract themselves from themself.
hahahahaha you can't be serious
uhm dude its 2021, its perfectly normal to be single in your twenties. its not 1960 where you had to be married at 21 or be considered a lost cause. just sign up for some dating website or whatever. or wait for covid to be over and go pick up chicks in bars that have been sitting at home all year just like everyone else
0/8 or weak people need someone to feel happy =)
Hi, I returned to my parents house at 30 with the lockdown, I'm playing video games every evening. It feels like I'm 16 again so I don't really care about relationships atm. Even though, I'm pretty sure I'll feel terrible when everything will re-open
u can fak all the bishes u want u dont want to marry a bish just enjoy the freedom 😎😎
You're just mentally weak, dude. Little fragile kid.
It's your choice, some people can't live w/o relationships, some people can. For me, living by your own is better in more aspects than living with someone + kids. At least for now and the next 5-10 years (24 now)
I came through a despression being alone, but at the end you start learning your mind to be alone, you will learn how to have fun alone, you dont need to waste your energy on a angry wife with childerens screaming. Some people cant handle being alone, its very different from person to person. You can travel the world, discover beautiful things by yourself, meet people all around you. You dont need to have a girlfriend of a wife to be happy. Its up to you, be yourself.
and you should get off hltv, so many negative people here.
This day im around people with families, and to be honest, they dont seem happy, their energy is low, and they have strugge to get freedom, but also its very beautiful to start a family, so there is no right answer. Its about teaching your mind to deal with it, battle your thoughts and turn them around to the positve way.
There is no loliness for who believes in god. Loving yourself and Godd is the best thing you can do. When you do this, everything around that comes is a plus. Iv never felt lonely before I was married. Wasnt looking for a girl either. I was around 25/26yo and she suddnely showed up to me, and I knew it was her. That day I knew we should be united. But man, being afraid of being alone is what makes you weak. Women hates that. And they are right. Not even these days I feel that being alone is a bad thing, even loving her so much.
I'm fortunate to have a good job, so I can afford lady company when I feel need for something physical.
Also I have good relationship with my parents so I visit them sometimes. Also my sister and her kids.
Main point is to enjoy your own company, which I do.
Im consistently torn between "if its meant to be, it will be" and "if you want it, go and get it".
Im 26. Ive done my fair part of exploring and casual sex doesnt really cut it for me anymore.
If you have money and loving family, you dont need GF. You can buy 1 night girls ez
EDIT: Girlfriends drain your energy with useless things + most of the guys are in "jail" because of girlfriend rules. Enjoy fkn life.
I am gonna be 26 this summer and I am single. It's better this way, trust me. if you need sex, just go out to a bar or smth, find a girl, get your sex. Living with someone is only troublesome
I found my GF at the age of 26 and we marry tomorrow.
Can tell you relationships are tough and there are points you will give up. But you should always remind yourself what you get once will you never get again in life when it comes to relationships.
If people can live alone they should do. But I wouldn't even get up every morning.
yes im 19 and having a friends with benefits relationship with 27 year old
in a good relationship now at 30, most of 25-30 like 90% of time was single, it was great until covid hit and then I regretted not settling down with the right person (altho to be fair i short-term dated some crazies who I could have ended up with and thankfully didn't). Met a nice colombian girl in nyc, settled in together and everything is copacetic. Fucking around on Tinder, clubbing, etc was what made me not depressed but yea the bachelor life is fun at first, lonely after a while. overall better to have one person you can date for a longer term. My advice would be by 25 u need to start focusing on a career first, financial independence will make u more attractive to women too. If u don't already then learn how to flirt, date, etc. There are a lot of shy guys especially gamers who think they cannot do this, but it is more about coming from a place of confidence and being level-headed, women will be naturally attracted to that, along with a sense of humor. Then things tend to come naturally, as long as u put yourself out there, you may meet the girl you want or some random bitches but hey who doesn't wanna mess around a bit when they're young, just don't let it cloud your true goal which should be to eventually have a stable income, start a family, etc...at least those are my thoughts now
It seems that most of the guys here have had bad relationships, so they prefer loneliness.
I am a woman that most guys would like to date, I am not beautiful and blond like many guys wish, but I am beautiful in body and face, I am liberal, I like games, I am fun, I know how to cook, I have work and my money , but do you know the problem with these guys? They say that "you are rare", they manage to conquer and then change. What happens next? They remain on tinder because they want to win as many women as they can.
imagine dedicating your life to another person lmao
29 single, Man utd and Faze fan. RIP me
Not 25 (yet) but I will still say something
first of all, it's not a matter of being in a relationship but being happy in life, sometimes you don't need a girlfriend but a girl friend, but if you want to get in relationship you need to be yourself and you need to be happy with yourself...
Also, you need to find some passion in life, set a goal, work towards getting it, get it.. set new one. You can't be in a stable relationship if you're not stable yourself.
I'll be 28 this year and yes I am currently single but in my case it is more unique due to being asexual and celibate, I don't really need nor want an intimate relationship, I'd much rather be friends with someone. :)
i mean im 22 not 25 never had a GF im not going to blame anyone for that i myself dont have good enough mental health to have a relationship and shit like social skills didnt come naturally for me how i cope i mean you try and focus on each day as its happening the less time you spend remembering how fucked you are the easier it gets hell thats the reason why i play Csgo cause even if its for a breif moment i forget how useless i am
im 35 and single. i was in a 9 year relationship that ended some years ago. i like being alone and havent tried to get a new relationship since. im a man, not a kid anymore
Honestly you will get better at dealing with it, but the best advice I can give you is to try to get rid of your bad habits, so when you actually find that one person you would like to be with, she/he actually stays. Fx I can be quite toxic and jealous which of course will push people away, so I'm trying to have a more positive mindset in general. Be the person you would like to be.
Not 25, but spending time on my own doing things I love makes me happy. The thought of 'I have to do X or Y to please someone or actively trying to date someone' is just not something I want right now.
sad thread. im happy i grew up way before these times.
When you are absolutely ugly or not interesting person for different gender, it's really easy to be lonely in that age. If you are both it also could last forever. However, I guess, having no friends should be times more depressing.
To be honest, I am 27 years old now, I have been single for almost 8 years I think but am happy you know.
I had a girlfriend and that went kind off shit after we broke up. I really didn't handle it nice. I was heartbroken and was really down, then after 1 month or so she ended up with a 'friend' of mine who tried to 'fix' us up.
This would go on for 1 year or so, which didn't make it any better because I was still furious and angry at them, I really wished they would break up a hella lot.
Since that, I like girls, but if they don't like me or something I am not going to invest time in them. Screw them all tbh, the only sad thing is that I need them so I can move out of house (the house prices here are.... to huge just for one person) and to have kids (which I want).
But am happy, I am not searching anymore, it will come or it won't come, if it won't come i can always go to a dating site or something, so plenty of options XD.
+1 Bruh this thread is still alive
you are probably at this stage when school and university is over and you realize (too late probably) that you actually need to start put effort in to meet people when before you were forced to socialize in youth
wtf if you're a guy you shouldn't be complaining, you can easily date girls 18-25yo
Tbh i never searched for a GF and i still dont sure it would be nice to fck here and there but i honestly dont know what i would do for the rest of the days with her