I used to get a bit lonely before the pandemic. I had barely any friends and would rarely see them and would see all of these people with friends who would party often etc.,.
since then I have not felt lonely once. Have I gotten used to the loneliness or have I found peace with myself? I do find many things to do on the computer and would say I am somewhat happy lately.
During the pandemic I joined discord everyday talking to my friends (ik irl) from when I wake up until I went to bed. I don't know if they were just getting toxic or I just didn't fit into their friend group but about 3-4 months ago I started to distance myself to now where I don't talk to anyone anymore. I relate to you now I feel like im more happy, more in touch with my emotions. I feel so much better that my daily fun doesn't depend on other people
Being able to enjoy loneliness is a perk, because you will stay happy and healthy without a big circle of friends. I’m like that, but i like to keep in touch with my family and my friends. Without a girlfriend however i would feel empty no matter what.
What is loneliness first of all? Is it equal to not having any friends or is it equal to being alone? I don’t like to go out all the time, instead i enjoy to be alone with my gf. If that isn’t called enjoying loneliness then idk what does.
no thats called not liking parties and preferring to stay at home. loneliness = loneliness, eg. literally being alone and not just physically but as a concept as well, so like, not having anyone to reach out to when u need it