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CIS Giros_Urban 
Who will pay on a first date? Man for girl or girl for herself? In CIS it's super trash theme. Asking guys from EU and US what u think about it and and how are you
2021-04-29 20:12
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#1
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United States habibi_exe
Man first for some reason
2021-04-29 20:14
both pay half
2021-04-29 20:15
#3
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Russia Slavaa
lol fuck it. don't pay for her, u don't even know her. she has to pay for herself like any normal person
2021-04-29 20:15
11 replies
+1
2021-04-29 20:15
#46
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United States poL_aris
+1
2021-04-29 21:10
+1
2021-04-29 21:11
#62
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Germany N4ime
+1
2021-04-29 21:21
+1
2021-04-29 21:27
+1
2021-04-29 21:32
#91
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Poland kad_xqd13
chad asf
2021-04-29 21:39
#106
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Czech Republic manik999
+1 You are risking that you both not get along. Both sides always risks. Woman nowadays can work and earn money, where the hell is the problem with her paying. These old traditions are so retarted. Imagine getting food for free.
2021-04-29 22:05
+1 pay your own food
2021-04-29 22:34
#121
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Armenia kingdavo
unless you wanna get laid that day
2021-04-29 23:56
#134
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North America joeS
+1
2021-04-30 15:47
it should be split but i guess man first for some reason
2021-04-29 20:15
You pay to eat pussy? wtf get a hooker that will be cheap
2021-04-29 20:15
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#13
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Romania HSQ
+1, hookers at least know a cost for themselves, if girl a hoe she gon' rob you bad
2021-04-29 20:17
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#71
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Hong Kong DG84
+1k
2021-04-29 21:25
flag checks out
2021-04-29 21:28
up to you, any normal girl will pay for herself tho
2021-04-29 20:15
lmao its tinder, just go to your/her apartment not some restaurant
2021-04-29 20:16
9 replies
#10
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Russia Slavaa
lol
2021-04-29 20:16
someone with experience .. i like it
2021-04-29 20:17
i don't think going to a total random persons home is the smartest thing to do. heard a lot of catfishing stories
2021-04-29 21:09
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#54
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Finland ThaMuse
then get her snapchat before hand. If she manages to catfish, you can always leave
2021-04-29 21:18
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can you? don't know what's waiting there
2021-04-29 21:24
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me
2021-04-29 21:25
Who cars, pussy or death, both worth it!
2021-04-29 21:47
if you get catfished you are retarded
2021-04-29 21:31
#64
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Germany N4ime
+1
2021-04-29 21:22
If you don't pay you come off broke, that's the harsh truth, it's not fair but if you don't want her to look at you like a bum just fucking pay it's 1 date, after that you can just split the bill
2021-04-29 20:16
#11
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France heiwa
Pay for what ? A condom ? It's a tinder date dude
2021-04-29 20:16
3 replies
exactly :D pay condom 50% / 50%
2021-04-29 20:22
heard a lot of complaints from boys that grills on tinder just want to chat and find friends.
2021-04-29 20:27
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Thats what they say to "boys" lmao Never heard of that tbh but then again Im not a scrawny awkward kid with no sex appeal
2021-04-30 14:18
Bring her to your house, feed her your own food and you won't have to pay. You can watch movies for free at home tho. Your home is the best place for datings.
2021-04-29 20:16
5 replies
What If I live in a crack house?
2021-04-29 20:34
2 replies
Even better, i think
2021-04-29 20:38
1 reply
This!
2021-04-29 20:57
normal girl will not go to your place on the first date
2021-04-29 22:12
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there are no normal girls on tinder, change my mind
2021-04-29 22:15
That's what i talking about guys! In CIS every girl says that man SHOULD pay in a first date, give flowers and pay for taxi. Absolutely betabux as i thought That's the one more reason why i don't like my country(
2021-04-29 20:17
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#20
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Russia Slavaa
lmao what a stupid reason to hate ur country
2021-04-29 20:20
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No no no it's about all girls opinions in 90% times. They think all ruskis are ugly and should pay because of this lol and now it's works for attractive guys lol
2021-04-29 20:22
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#29
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Russia Slavaa
they are stupid and brainwashed traitors, ruskis are beautiful, and Belarus is great. If they dont want to pay for herselves cuz they are dumb, just dont date with her and find a kind girl. If there is such a majority, it's doesn't mean you should indulge them and not love your country
2021-04-29 20:30
#44
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Brazil |witcher|
These girls want you to get used to pay everything. This is just the start.
2021-04-29 21:09
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#63
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Germany ChRiZOwow
Not in my book. Woman should pay her coffee and I pay my coffee. Like biatch wtf?
2021-04-29 21:22
#61
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Germany ChRiZOwow
Why doesn’t the woman pay for the first date? Woman should have more power
2021-04-29 21:21
Try to Pay first if she denies then let her pay the bills .... Or just pay without letting her know that u have already paid.
2021-04-29 20:17
#17
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Bosnia and Herzegovina Foxxyownz
split. she's prolly not worth dating anyway if she wants you to pay, either broke or entitled bimbo
2021-04-29 20:19
as a guy u can not pay and still get laid, but if u marry it won't last
2021-04-29 20:19
You never take her somewhere you have to pay on a first date, rookie mistake.
2021-04-29 20:20
guy pays because although women can be whatever they want in the 21st century, men still have to conform to ancient gender norms
2021-04-29 20:23
2 replies
not everyone has that semi-pro moneys
2021-04-30 00:35
1 reply
then gl finding a girlfriend
2021-04-30 00:36
its depends on many things.
2021-04-29 20:24
Personally, it depends on how well the date went, if it's dogshit then 50/50 If it went really well and you possibly seek to meet her again then I would insist on paying but if u are poor then just do 50/50 I've been out with a 3rd worlder (Kosovo) and I can't imagine let a girl pay 18€ for a hangout, lmao
2021-04-29 20:27
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Ukraine gdp per capita: 3,659.03 USD Kosovo gdp per capita: $4,418 USD xaxaxa
2021-04-29 20:37
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im fakeflagger
2021-04-29 20:37
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wtf thats not allowed
2021-04-29 21:01
idk just be honest with her and ask her, if you are unsure. Maybe she says 50/50 and maybe she wants you to pay. idk maybe like this its better than making her feel unsure.
2021-04-29 20:28
#28
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World ayyypepito
pay what? condoms?? c'mon you can do it :P
2021-04-29 20:29
#30
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Canada qui9
pay for your own food, she pays for hers
2021-04-29 20:34
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#58
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Germany ChRiZOwow
She pays for both. Men doesn’t have to pay anything)))
2021-04-29 21:20
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#72
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Canada qui9
i liking what you think mens))
2021-04-29 21:26
Split obviously
2021-04-29 20:37
u pay if she is worth it or its a split
2021-04-29 20:39
if you both want something serious and kinda long term split if you wanna just bang her than move on you gotta pay all
2021-04-29 20:40
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#59
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Finland ThaMuse
not really
2021-04-29 21:20
5 replies
what's your take on this one then?
2021-04-29 21:23
4 replies
#102
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Bosnia and Herzegovina Foxxyownz
women wanna bang just as much, why should man pay?
2021-04-29 21:58
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paying full on the first date = impressing the woman it's fucking dumb but it's really how 80% of these females' brain works
2021-04-29 22:05
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#112
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Bosnia and Herzegovina Foxxyownz
true
2021-04-29 22:19
#103
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Finland ThaMuse
I've paid once on a tinder date and that time nothing happened. Whether it's a restaurant or a bar, I've paid only for my stuff. I have cooked while paying for all the ingredients though so that might count as paying.
2021-04-29 22:03
in the NL splitting the bill is very common
2021-04-29 21:02
dont waste ur time she just wants a free meal, either just try and fuck or go on a date somewhere more fun than getting food
2021-04-29 21:03
#42
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Hungary szia
You should each pay for what you order
2021-04-29 21:04
I've been om 20+ tinder dates, and i never take them out, i just invite them home and cook dinner.
2021-04-29 21:06
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#56
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Germany ChRiZOwow
Smart af :o
2021-04-29 21:19
#47
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Finland teukkjs
what a nerdyass question
2021-04-29 21:10
its easy: who asks for the date first? -> If its you (i assume guy) you prepare to pay full because you invite them. If the other person asks and they dont want to pay full you can pay half, if they dont want to pay when they invite its gg anyway
2021-04-29 21:13
#50
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Poland FitPolak
What do you want to pay for? Food on the first date is disgusting, just drink coffee and chat.
2021-04-29 21:14
#51
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Ukraine W1ldHunt
Dunno, I've got rejected today XDDDDDDDD
2021-04-29 21:15
18 replies
Plenty more fish in the sea bro
2021-04-29 21:17
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#60
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Ukraine W1ldHunt
I laughed it off, but at the same time it still affects me. Guess I am not as tough as I believed I am.
2021-04-29 21:21
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#67
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Germany N4ime
In 1 week everything will be fine bro.
2021-04-29 21:24
9 replies
#80
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Ukraine W1ldHunt
Idk anymore, I still have to see this person many times, it's going to be awkward. I can't even barely play and communicate in CS now. I don't understand why I cannot care about this.
2021-04-29 21:29
8 replies
because you realized you have lower reproduction chances than you initially thought
2021-04-29 22:11
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#115
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Ukraine W1ldHunt
Not really, I still can hire your mom))))
2021-04-29 22:20
6 replies
cringe, i didn't even mean to roast you, was just explaining human behaviour. This is also why many men get defensive when you attack their manhood.
2021-04-29 22:23
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#117
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Ukraine W1ldHunt
Bro, this is the first time I get rejected. I am not used to this so it sucks ass, but at the same time I was joking, I didn't mean to offend you, man. I mean maybe one of the reasons is having a small friends circle and being a fucking Ukrainian immigrant XD
2021-04-29 22:33
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maybe you have a less agreeable personality and that's why you have small friend circle, also I don't know your age, where you live, work, circumstances etc. so it's hard to say if that's because you're an immigrant
2021-04-29 22:46
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#120
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Ukraine W1ldHunt
I am studying right now, 1 more year and time for University. I like to have few friends that I can trust and I keep satellites for info. I ma usually very quiet and serious. My family is your typical average family in Western Europe, but I keep traditions and customs from East Europe. Could it be because I am always quiet and serious?
2021-04-29 22:53
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most likely, I'd say ''just try to have fun'', but that's obviously easier said than done for certain people
2021-04-30 01:13
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#126
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Ukraine W1ldHunt
Can-t haven fun when you're on that grind
2021-04-30 14:13
#82
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Serbia Krosis
How did you approach her and how did she reject you?
2021-04-29 21:30
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#90
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Ukraine W1ldHunt
So I couldn't see her until Wednesday so I decided to end it all today. I said "Listen, I do like you and I thought maybe there's something between us." Everything I've got is "Oh, unexpected" and that was it. I count it as an rejection.
2021-04-29 21:38
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Yeah if she liked you, she wouldve responded positively and confessed that she had feelings for you too. Tho your approach needs fixing, because it sounded needy and gave all the power to her, wich turns a women off. If anything she shouldve said something like this.She wants men who dont really care too much, are direct and confident. Preferably you should ask a girl out irl since it makes it look like you arent scared but it also works over text. Next time you meet a girl send her this:''hi, how was your day? Im free on friday, so how about we do something together?'' That simple, its direct and you make your intentions clear. If shes interested, she will say yes immediately, if she says no or gives you an excuse, you move on and keep focusing on your life. Hope this helps
2021-04-29 21:49
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#107
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Ukraine W1ldHunt
I've got to be honest. I barely have any friends left and I almost don't socialize outside of my education center and + I believe it could be because I am an immigrant (maybe ish). People told me that I am good looking, but I am not sure if I believe this anymore. Guess I'll just join the army to escape all of this bullshit. Man, I could barely play CS today.
2021-04-29 22:07
2 replies
everything will befine man take your time
2021-04-30 15:48
1 reply
#137
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Ukraine W1ldHunt
I've been thinking about this last night. I understood that I can't feel bad for this shit as I gave my shot, I knew the consequences. It made me realize that I have other goals in life. I feel good already. But thanks for the cheering up, man.
2021-04-30 16:02
#52
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Brazil hugoooo
Bitch, pls Pay the fucking food and booze... 2 or 3 hours later you pay the condom.
2021-04-29 21:16
#55
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Germany ChRiZOwow
Let her pay. It’s feminist ideal and good ))) men don’t have to pay anymore
2021-04-29 21:18
when me and my girlfriend started dating, we divided the bill in two without any problem.
2021-04-29 21:20
#68
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Philippines LamiKeyow
If you live in a traditionalist country, society would say You should pay for the woman because the man will be the one who provides and the woman will be the one who will take care of the kids. If you live in a country where almost everything should be equal, I'd say splitting it would be the best. I don't know about dating in a country that focuses more on equality but I'd stand on a relationship where the man would pay for the meal because it's a way to show how masculine and serious you are in a relationship.
2021-04-29 21:25
#70
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Czech Republic JakamanCZ
I don´t really care who pays for the 2 Happy Meals ... if you can´t afford it, maybe don´t date
2021-04-29 21:25
#73
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Finland RamboAAA
Should I join Tinder? or is it waste of time? Never had issues at getting girlfriends, but now during corona I really don't have any interaction with other women. bars are closed and it's still cold af outside so people aren't going anywhere
2021-04-29 21:27
girl for both
2021-04-29 21:27
Tinder is stupid. Boyfriends and girlfriends are stupid. Work on yourself. Go on dates with other people so you can get to know her as a person (not banging). Once you realize that you have similar values, are of similar competence, and are on similar trajectories, propose, get married, and stay married. EDIT: also, the man should pay.
2021-04-29 21:34
imo a guy being to eager to pay is basically saying the girl is a prostitute
2021-04-29 21:29
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Serbia Krosis
If its a tinder girl shes already not worth it, so just invite her over to your appartment or go to hers and have your fun. She will respect you even more since you dont rely on impressing her with expensive dinners and gifts. Your charisma, frame and hopefully looks should do the heavy lifting.
2021-04-29 21:29
BTW is tinder really for sex only? Boomer here
2021-04-29 21:30
4 replies
yes or girls looking for some ego boost
2021-04-29 21:33
I think the use of the app changes according to where... In my city wouldn't be weird if you are looking for a girlfriend there When I am in a bigger city, people almost everyone is just looking for sex
2021-04-29 21:35
1 reply
k thx
2021-04-29 21:37
girls = boost ego or chat to waste time to forget their miserable lives dudes = sex
2021-04-30 00:13
I usually pay because im ugly as fuck
2021-04-29 21:32
2 replies
+999 This poor girl is taking the time out of her day to spend time with my dumbass, the least I can do is pay.
2021-04-29 21:36
#93
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Poland kad_xqd13
ok that reasoning makes sense only if you are dating out of your league (which rarely applies to tinder dating though)
2021-04-29 21:43
Usually if the date goes well and you connect well you can pay, if it's a 1 time thing just split the bill.
2021-04-29 21:40
#94
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Russia sedeg
make her pay for both dinners, why should men always pay ? they want equal right dont they ? so that means also to set social standards straight. if she doesnt accept this whip out your dick and force it up her left nostril to make her suffocate. this way she realize that the MAN is the one who decides about life or death and in the meantime you get your dick stroked. win win situation.
2021-04-29 21:43
#95
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Germany lor3nz
girl has to pay or i wont meet her a second time
2021-04-29 21:44
#96
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Brazil wetdark
I think there is no problem with paying the bill. You need to keep in mind what you want from her. If you just want to have sex, you should pay without fear. If you want to date, you should also pay, but you should check if she is interested in paying her own bill, because if she has no interest in sharing the bill, maybe she is not a good girl to date, she would not be caring about you or what you think about it.
2021-04-29 21:45
#97
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Denmark KalasYoP
I'm a balkan guy living in Denmark, and I always pay. You dont have to pay on the first date, but just do it man.
2021-04-29 21:45
if you are not a complete retard you should instantly observe girl's behaviour and understand if she is interested in you or just want to use you. most of the girls who are interested in you won't order anything special/expensive or won't care if it's split pay.
2021-04-29 21:47
Just keep it straight up and invite her over to fuck. And when you're done that's that, no need to pay for food and other dumb shit
2021-04-29 21:57
In 2021 womens should pay for mens
2021-04-29 22:04
tell her to pay and drive u home like an alpha. GL
2021-04-29 22:13
pretend to go take a piss & then run away fast, ez free meal
2021-04-29 22:19
you can say 'ok lemme pay like a real man should' as kind of a joke, if she stops you then she a real one if not enjoy -$20 i dont do refunds
2021-04-29 22:19
2 replies
If she doesnt want to pay just go to the waiter and say hey that lady over there asks If you could bring her the bill, you run away in the meantime
2021-04-30 14:19
1 reply
hahahahah
2021-04-30 15:45
only if ur rich pay for everything but why tf are you on tinder if ur rich
2021-04-30 14:20
#130
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Liberia rationale
My experience with Tinder has been horrible so far. Most girls from it demand nothing but perfection - you must have/earn a fortune, you must be tall, sexy, young, handsome and funny. Of course, you must entertain, love and provide for her. Of course all these women continue to find no one on Tinder because they are focking idiots. The fact that you were born with a vagina doesn't mean you deserve the best of the world. If a woman doesn't want to split the bill, pay for her and never deal with her again. If she demands to be paid for it means she wants to enslave you and give nothing in return. A woman who respects you and herself won't go on a date to be fed/entertained for free. That means you will never be on equal terms.
2021-04-30 14:53
I'm from CIS. I would like to do like that: man pays 50%, women does too. If you invited woman, maybe i will pay 100% (if she didn't order so many expensive things) but i'm not sure. I would like to get 50/50%
2021-04-30 15:47
If you ask her out you pay and if she asks you out she pays
2021-04-30 16:04
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