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I dont know what to do (dating advice menss pls)
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Israel Rea77y 
So I have been in this close friendship with one girl for over 3 month now and she knows I want us to start dating but she doesn't want to be in a relationship because she is afraid of them and she keeps telling me that she doesn't know if she wants us to date or not. Today I am going to a party where another girl that I know is in to me will be there but I feel that she lacks a bit of personality even though she looks way better. Now my dilemma here is do I keep on trying with the girl that I don't know if she will end up dating me or not or do I say fuck it and go for the one that is in to me? tl:dr : do I got for personality but not guaranteed or do I go for 100% but a bit less personality and better looks.
2021-06-20 15:12
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go faceit men))
2021-06-20 15:13
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+1
2021-06-20 15:13
#3
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Israel Rea77y
lets go whats your name? I speak ruski
2021-06-20 15:13
#18
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India daksh29
+1
2021-06-20 19:37
#19
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Brazil ghcnvbkn
+1
2021-06-20 19:37
go with the one is into you, the other girl will realize her mistake and will approach you in the future you kill 2 birds with 1 stone, trust my experience
2021-06-20 15:14
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#5
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Israel Rea77y
I trust you mens thx
2021-06-20 15:16
rep Palestine then you will get any girl you desire
2021-06-20 15:17
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#10
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Israel Rea77y
nvm sorry cant respect rockets at my roof
2021-06-20 15:19
go with one, and the next day with the second. But remember to go to the restaurant with them, and let them pay for you😎 ez dinners thank me later
2021-06-20 15:17
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8/8
2021-06-20 15:18
#9
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Germany breezy0
this is rly a kid question, you are below 20 right? try to be clever. don't force a friendship on yourself if you want more, it's really simple. you said you were pretty open with her about it so things are clear already. the most imporant thing is to not continue a close friendship to the girl you like, this forces her to reevaluate her feelings and position towards you. DONT BE HER FRIEND go to the party and try your luck with the other girl. best case it works and you are happy. it will make the other girl jealous that way or another. if it doesn't make her feel something you don't care either because you did the right thing and the situation is cleared. if she realizes her feelings for you you can engage with her.
2021-06-20 15:19
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#11
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Israel Rea77y
yes thank you this is what I was thinking just dont have much experience and I am always afraid to fuck everything up
2021-06-20 15:20
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#13
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Germany breezy0
dont be afraid to fuck everything up. it can happen but just don't overthink this shit, just let it happen. it will not end your life. you want to make these experiences so you know better how to deal with this in the future.
2021-06-20 15:22
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#14
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Israel Rea77y
thx mens for help many thanks from me
2021-06-20 15:23
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#17
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Germany breezy0
a few years ago i was in a similar situation with a girl i knew from university, we were rly close friends but i was just as dumb and also inexperienced. i fucked up, friendship break with her and some other close friend. we dated, i even slept with her but not more, it didn't work because too much shit happened. back then i had hard feelings for her, today i don't even know why anymore. but i'm glad i took the risk even if it destroyed a friendship or more but now who cares, i learned a lot and helped me with other situations. life goes on no matter what, really.
2021-06-20 15:29
go with the one who likes you, maybe the other girl will realize her mistake, either way it's good
2021-06-20 15:21
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#15
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Israel Rea77y
thx bruda
2021-06-20 15:23
#4 seems like sound advice. At the end of the day it's your choice and I don't know the entire situation, but I'd advise you not to waste your time chasing a girl, unless you are 100% sure she is the one and only.
2021-06-20 15:26
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