stop with the girls and start with then mens)) men
give it some more time and you'll be fine, maybe meet someone who you'll wnt to spend more than a day with, etc etc. good luck and take care mens)))
same here stopped relationship year ago, we were together 6 years, felt the same man. I know what it is, be strong and everything will be fine
Grow balls and get over it, by being sad about it you just waste your time you could use being happy
will try to enjoy life, go for something you like, try to leave your ex aside
She wins when you spend your day like this. Just start seeing other people and try to live life again, eventually you will find someone that will make you forgot about your ex, until this new person breaks up with you and then your back to feeling lonely again. Its just how it is, you will get broken up sometimes but its your choice on how to deal with it.
Wow, this is a tough situation. First of all, don't kill yourself because of someone, have some self-love mens. Second I suggest u to search new things to doo, play a new game, learn a new language, practice a sport. As u say u fell alone, why don't go to a bar find new peoples or to the mall, watch a movie. Last of all, about the girl u like, well the best way I think is open the game and talk with her about your fellings. Hope I help u and my dm is open if u need men
That feeling is temporary, just focus on yourself and be a better you,
Get over it and dont fall in love ever again
Just try to hold on for a while, time will heal your wounds
First of all, go see someone who can actually help you. We can advice you all you want and make you feel better, but at the end of the day it will be temporary and it won't change things.
If you just wanna talk to ask for others opinions that's fine. Sorry but that's all i can say.
Bruh, if this type of shit brings you down wait until real life issues hit you.
But, its well known that after a serious relationship it takes 1 third of the amount of time you've been together to get over it. You'll suffer for a while, meet another girl, sex her, fall in love and all will be good.
If she moved on and found another guy that means that something was wrong with your relationship and she was not the one for you.
Homies over hoes
Homies over hoes
Homies over hoes
tough situation but u can get over it bro. U may get drunk 1 day (i'm not a fan of it), but the next day u'll have a clear head and you will know what you really want to do because you will feel better the next day then ever before. If i feel myself shitty, i do so and the whole week i'm very productive and have a will to live. where are you from by the way? Dm me if you wanna talk more bro
Mens)))) You can take her off the streets, but never take the streets out of her if you know what I'm saying.
Take time to find yourself again, do your hobbies, start new ones, make sure you get a new perspective on life
You must endure, it won't always feel this bad.
Just hold on mens.
if you feel sad or lonely, come play cs go my brotha.
Although the pain is hardly bearable right now, you will heal with time like everyone else. Don't do anything foolish.
When another person is all you have in life, you are broke. Now that she is gone, you have nothing left. This is why everyone should hit the gym. It does wonders mentally. I have had many workouts that were extremely personal due to problems in life, and i let everything out there. On the treadmill and on weights. Sauna and cold shower after that, a little walk home and you feel fresh as fuck, at peace. Consider it unless you want to keep on wasting your precious time on your bed.
you forced your relationship to an end and now you feel bad for it? wtf? anyway, are you this fckin weeb or a man? get out of your fckin house and go to the gym(perfect if you don't want to think about shit), if you want to throw away your life because of one girl then you are stupid and worthless, get the fuck out of your couch, throw away those ciggaretes and start being real man you weeby
First u need to know is: No one girl (people) can be more than urself.
Before the girl, has u !
First, Remember all the things that made u divorce, do u wanna this again?
Ok, i think no. So forget her.
Second, listen a good bob marley songs who has a lot of good messages of being fine, live your life, and others. (make a good marijuana cigarrete lol)
Third, look for your friends , go out home, enjoy some clubs, bars, and u will find new girls.
You dont have to be in love for anyone, just live the life.
Dont look or search a Girl to be your new girlfriend, this will happen naturally, and when this happen, you will know.
In some months you will be fine, trust me.
And after this time, u will back here to look your message and say to urself: "wow, i was crazy".
Just go on!
I don’t know how you feel (because I didn’t have a relationship). And I can't even imagine what it is, but if it happened to me, I would watch some films, TV series, so as not to think about her. Also, when I'm sad, I talk to myself, ( yeah kinda weird, but i don't have anyone to talk so :(.. ) talk about the problem, talk about why I'm sad, talk about life and think about it only positively, so that I don't feel sad. I say that everything will be fine, and after like hour of reflection, I feel better.
Well if it's love problems it should go away at some point so dying seems unnecessary men))
keep going strong bro, we love you <3
i was in a sort of similar situation and as hard as it sounds. you need to just accept it and move on. time will heal your scar and it might take a long time. but you will get better. remember that
felt the same and the only thing I can say is
u cant change your feelings from one moment to the next u need time for this I think it will take atleast a year its gonna be hard but dont think about suicide or smthng like that cuz its just one little part of your life so keep your head up, everything will get better trust me mens))
"We were together for about 2 years and I lost my best friend (who were in love in her in secret, did suicide by our relationship)."
Wdym? You were together with your gf for 2 years, and your best friend died by suicide? Im not understanding sorry men
World is full of people...go outside and meet new ones. This'll definitely help.
Brother, I have been there. Trust me, you are going to get over it, you just need a lot of time and eventually it is gonna be ok. It is not easy and there must have been some really bad things that she has done to you, so remember them everytime, she is the one hurting you and you must show that you know better. That you are another level, do not let this destroy but let it power you. gl.
I was in a very similar spot man i had the same feelings as you it took me a while of feeling terrible, i put my effort in working out and learning how to meditate and it really helped man. hope u feel better bro
If she left you and things werent good in the relationship then she wasnt the ONE. What I can tell is that next time you commit to a relationship don't make her your #1 priority with ignoring urself . You said it yourself "(was really toxic at the end mostly i was forcing to divorce the relationship)", if u didnt want to be with her at the end why do u even think about her now. Think about if u really want her or you just NEED her. ( I can say much more, but it wouldnt fill here)
Sorry for your friend :(. Stay strong polish brother love from Bulgaria <3
literally every man after the end of first relationship
"I lost my best friend (who were in love in her in secret, did suicide by our relationship)"
lmaooo, where did you read this shit?
Imagine getting so lost because of a women.
What advice can i give to you?
Well, MAN UP! That's next level beta shit....
This is why you dont give your everything for a woman. There are plenty of them in the end. And its (almost) always us guys who suffer the most when a relationship ends.
yo homie, i was in ur situation too, i broke up with my ex and wanted to litteraly suicide for whole 2 weeks, like doing nothing, feeling pain, emptyness and thinking about dying, my family member helped me a lot, by saying that i should just do as many things as i can, i litteraly didnt do much in my life but after it i just forced to start doing like fucking a ton of new things, i was working out, studying, going for a part-time job, spending time with my friends, going to new places. That helped me a lot to not to think about her, time passed and i just don't feel affected by it, memories will never go away, but the pain will, trust me, just do it. Sorry for my bad london.
Good thing I'm polish, coz I need to clean my eyes with plunger after reading that.
You don't even imagine how many disappointments I had, when I tried getting into relationships and when I was in relationships. Some girls kept dodging messages, some answered, but that was about it, some did meet me IRL, but only once, never replied again after. I was depressed thinking, that I would never find happiness, because I am ugly or lacking something. Actually, the funniest thing is that whenever I asked, what was the reason of their behavior, neither of them could answer it and right now I know that it was for the better. Nowadays, people break up for many reasons, mostly money, some girls are just stupid and like "bad boys" and only later in life realize they messed up. I had a tough break up too, but it is important to keep going. Find something that distracts you, something you really love doing. Eventually, you will find someone who would really love and cherish you and your relationship. Also, don't you have friends? Go out with them or something. Life is amazing.
You see, if you were Muslim, this would've never happened.
Mate I've been going through the same thing about 2 weeks ago and the only thing that helped me was someone that I could talk to about everything. You need to find someone it can't call our Polish care line ( tou probably heard about it). Stay safe man
just get rich and famous and she will come back to you if you really want
There is a lot to live for, brother. Learn to love yourself before trying to love others, that's what Father tells us. May God bless and guard you along the way, my brother.
Tbh i wanna die too. But i always keep my goals in my head like reaching sometthing big in north korea politically seen and that keeps me from it. I had times where i cried every night and wished i was dead but i kept my cat in my head, i couldnt ever let this guy alone, he changed my life. Maybe you try a pet? Helped many peiplw
Not your fault he suicided, someone who suicides over something like that usually is already pretty much done with his live and this relationship was just the last drop to make the barrel overflow.
Find the strength to go on.
If she returns your suffering would be in vain.
If she doesn't return your suffering would be in vain.
In the end our existence is 100% meaningless. It's all down to serotonin, dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins and whether you've got enough of them. Right now you're lacking them a lot - as to whether you can replenish them no one knows.
I presume you're young and healthy, so given time you'll be alright.
I'm in a similar situation only 1000 times worse. I'm twice as old as most folks here, I have no chance of getting her back ever even if I become a king. And I'm lone as fuck.
stopped reading after "we brokeup"
u 20yo mongoloid grow some balls and wake up
man s1mple still dont have major its not right time
did suicide by your relationship?
if this is real
How to get over it :
stop listening to sad songs
end the grief
How to end the grief :
-make small goals each day
-occupy your brain, your hands, your mind
-try to remember how bad it would be if you were still in a relationship w/ her
-ITS. NOT. YOUR. FAULT. It's no ones fault. Life is that way, and you can't help it
-Talk to others. Suicide hotlines if you're desperate, HLTV mens if you want, but please talk about it. If you want to talk with me go ahead.
-Remember the goals? they will help you. each day you will feel better, something will be burning inside of you and help you continue. it can be lifting weights, any hobby , learning a new language, being better at your field of expertise, learning how to cook, make cocktails ANYTHING. The burning will be joy, it will be hope, it will be passion. And this will make a new "you". You can turn your life around. I believe in you.
Classic focus on meeting new bitches fuck em and work on your self and try to get distraction in the meantime work on yourself for quality of
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Try to focus on something
On your job, your hobbies or browse hltv and play cs
You will always find another girl who you really love. Humans are still basically animals. Try to not care about her. Get her out of your life forever. Focus on job and finding new hobbies
it goes away dont worry give it time then you will remember and say what an idiot i was to feel that way
If you are serious, read the Qur'an. You wouldn't want to hear my story, I was in deep and deep pain, now thanks to Allah, I can breathe again, read it. Do not listen people just listen to your Creator. Only and Best He knows what you have broken and only He can tell you the solution. May Allah guide you.
People will tell you like : do this ,make this , focus on this... etc etc. NO! just no! Go ask for this WHO KNOWS YOU BEST.
Had a break up month ago too, felt like dying for first two weeks, was just non-stop crying and thinking about what we've done together. What really helped me is talking to my friends a lot, focusing on my hobbies and talking with her about everything happened. Now it looks like I'm almost ok, but I think I still need some time to fully get over it. So, I think, what you need to do is just get through it, maybe focus on smth you like or need to do (hobbie, work, school, gym etc). And talk to your friends as much as usual, so you probably won't feel so lonely and hopeless.
if a man can't live without a woman, then he must search for a different woman, she won't come back to you if she doesn't want to, so try filling her space with somebody else, and stop caring about who she's with, if he's better or not, you're nice the way you are, and other woman will know that, you just gotta find the right one
Listen to Dr Jordan Peterson speak. He has a lot of stuff on youtube. He will help you.
get over it and move on. it wouldn't be easy but worth it
May I ask you about your age?
"But right now, i felt emptyness" every man feels like this and thinks that is sadness, but it's not, get a hobby or a new job
In my opinion time is the only thing that can cure a broken heart. That or new relationship. You can do things like workout or start a new hobby to take your mind off things, but you can't rush time.
" I lost my best friend (who were in love in her in secret, did suicide by our relationship)"
dawg, come on, she doesn't deserve you at all. how could she loved you reciprocally if she did such things?
Remember: Straighten up little soldier, Stiffen up that upper lip
Suicide doesn't stop the pain, you're only moving it.
Imagine if someone was expressing the same things as you about heroine.
How he loves heroine, how he doesn't want to be without heroine, how he can't live without heroine, how he can't stop thinking about heroine, how he can't function without heroine.
What would you say to this person?
You are not talking about heroine of course. You are talking about another person. But it is actually the exact same thing. You got yourself addicted, and have become a junky. It's a very unhealthy thing. Probably the most unhealthy of them all.
Now you feel like you are in need of that other person, because you managed to forget, how much you actually need yourself. I am not saying it is easy. Because it's not. But to be without pain, you have to find yourself. Which is the hardest task you will ever encounter in your life. But worth it.
Try "restart" instead of "kill" in console instead. xoxo <3
Get a hobby and stop meeting gross bar/club girls. Go places where you’ll meet decent people instead
I got married in July of 2018 and then after my wedding our relationship of 9 years fell apart, we were separated by November the same year.
I suffered from mental health issues and PTSD from almost dying in my sleep a couple of years prior (i had never wanted to get married, but the fact she stuck with me when the doctor gave me a 10% chance of living, and basically had to bath and shower me because i was so fucked). I thought i would do the right thing.
The divorce came, I lost everything, i lost my house, my wife, I had to move back in with my parents, i tried 3 times to take my own life and thankfully i didnt succeed or do any long term damage. Had it not have been for my dog i wouldnt be here, him frantically scratching at my arm to stop what i was doing was the only thing that saved me the last time. Then COVID hit, 18 months later, some therapy sessions and some medication and im back on the right track. I have managed to save nearly £50k in the last 2 years and will be buying my house once the market comes down.
What im trying to say is yes its a struggle now, but you will get through it, but you might need some proper help from a trained professional, and if medication is the way forward, it really helped me!
stop with the 1 night stands. sex with people who dont care about you will just increase your loneliness
Something that has helped me a lot when I feel "stuck" is that I exercise (running and/or hitting the gym. Yes I can sometimes do both in a day when I feel like shit). It really helps me A LOT. Now, Idk if you workout or not but what I do with my workouts when I feel like this in general I just dig so fucking deep in my mind, I try to find every part of negativity thought inside of me and use it as fuel and I just try to do something about it. And this has helped me with everything I've encountered and I just make the decision of dealing with my problem. This is the hardest challenge right?
Actually dealing with your problems. Idk how much I can help you but just try to find solutions to get rid of this victim mentality. Surround yourself around positivity, get active, look for someone new, talk to someone you trust.
And yes I get it! You can't get over the fact that she is not there with you and it sucks and life builds mountains in our lives, there are ups and downs so always try to show up no matter what. You were given a life for a reason and just believe in the process, show up STRONGER, GREATER and more POWERFUL!
Hope this helped! I really care about you and wish you the absolute best. #MuchLove :)
man our lives have a much bigger purpose, and that is to bring positive change to this world. These are mere petite things which shouldn't deviate you from seeing the bigger picture. Here you are talking about to die just because of a little hoe? think about your family, the people who love you...