Forum thread: friends

i doubt anyone actually connects thru "online college"

2022-01-23 21:47

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i get your point, but still i was kinda relieve that i will have someone to talk to once college opens

2022-01-23 21:54

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if you had 6 good friends in class and 10+ overall friends in school, how many of them did you actually hang out with during holidays? for me it was barely a few consider online anything like that the connection just isnt there or needs to be built over months and years of consistent conversation

2022-01-23 21:56

why do you need friends in online college ? just meet your real life friends.

2022-01-23 21:48

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cant, there is a lockdown where i live, and its difficult bcz of covid, so online is the only way, also since this is my 1st year of college and ill be spending my next 3 years with new people, i have to make some friends

2022-01-23 21:53

i mean it sucks you have to go to online college but nice you've made social progress :=)

2022-01-23 21:49

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and i believe that social progress is going down the drain, i suck at making friends and being sociable, but i was so glad that i found some cool people, now im starting to think they dont like me

2022-01-23 21:52

I think people that believe they have poor social skills or just have social anxiety in general become paranoid about being outcast by their friends. I would say try your best to continue your friendships with them, and see if they reciprocate. A lot of times I think these worries are just unfounded paranoia from that anxiety.

2022-01-23 22:04

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cant relate more to what you said, i do sometimes think that its just me being paranoid but i cant do anything about it, even if im aware about it. i have felt it almost in every friendship, even with my school friends who i have a veryyy good relationship with

2022-01-25 10:23

ify dude

2022-01-25 10:25

Same bro College is scary when you are alone

2022-01-25 12:51