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Pay the full bill or split it
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Brazil ZerongBr 
You're in a date and have those two options. What would you do? Pay the entire bill or only your part? I'd pay my part but letting the girl know that I'm doing this purposely and not because I can't pay her part
2022-04-03 01:51
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Cant really remember the last time I had to pay for my own food at a date
2022-04-03 01:52
7 replies
+1 this dudes got it figured out
2022-04-03 02:08
6 replies
hes playing with words, he never goes out to dates
2022-04-03 04:40
5 replies
Real mens have cooking skills better than chef, only peasants need to go to restaurant
2022-04-03 06:26
no he gets it paid for (name checks out)
2022-04-03 15:51
I do go on dates and pretty much never pay.
2022-04-03 16:07
2 replies
do you at least sex them?
2022-04-03 18:40
1 reply
Sometimes, if im horny and they are good looking
2022-04-03 19:39
Depends on length of relationship. Earlier I would pay full bill but only for first couple dates then split it
2022-04-03 01:56
5 replies
if she spit you split. its that easy.
2022-04-03 15:12
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#111
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Denmark V1tus
If she swallow, the money follow
2022-04-03 17:35
1 reply
at last i have found true wisdom on hltv
2022-04-03 18:35
True, but I guess op meant on the first dates From my experience the girls usually insist to split
2022-04-03 18:52
1 reply
If they insist to split I will split
2022-04-03 19:53
pay the full bill, a real man always treats the woman on a first date but once youre in a relationship, obviously split
2022-04-03 01:57
18 replies
depends on your financial situation, if you're in the position with little leftover income then that shouldn't stop you from being able to date, but if you're in the position to pay the full bill, you should
2022-04-03 02:00
5 replies
if youre low on cash, improvise, cook a meal for both of you at your place for example cheap and you can make it as romantic as you like
2022-04-03 02:04
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#39
XeqtR | 
Australia Kree8
Most on this site are young and would burn water trying to cook
2022-04-03 05:07
3 replies
its not like you have to cook something extraordinary, its more about just making the impression women love a man who can cook, and when you put effort into creating a date at your place, who wouldnt appreciate that? its a good first impression and show of character
2022-04-03 05:11
2 replies
+1 and making a basic but tasty meal isn’t hard at all, practice it once or twice and basically nothing can go wrong
2022-04-03 15:48
1 reply
exactly right
2022-04-04 05:38
Mfs will say this then argue about feminism in 2022
2022-04-03 02:50
5 replies
of course you can argue about feminism its just my opinion that when you treat a woman on the first date, it shows her your values and *should* give you a good feeling afterwards
2022-04-03 02:52
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#26
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United States KhT
To be honest with you I would probably feel bad because I would lose more money than I should have to.
2022-04-03 03:00
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honestly yeah, depends on the woman, if the date isn't going great, or they seem to purposefully ordering expensive items to see your reaction, make em pay, women like that aren't worth your time or money
2022-04-03 03:53
wdym by "good feeling" as in sex?
2022-04-03 08:38
1 reply
if youre going on a date, it should make you feel good to be treating a woman to dinner
2022-04-03 08:40
"Real man" lmao. Please do not be brainwashed
2022-04-03 17:38
5 replies
brainwashed?
2022-04-04 05:38
4 replies
yes brainwashed. there's no logical reason why you couldnt flip the genders of the arguments you made. why shouldnt women show men their true values or treat the man? xD it makes no sense.
2022-04-04 05:48
3 replies
its just my opinion dude. i get a good feeling from treating my woman to dinner and i believe more men should as well?
2022-04-04 05:50
2 replies
>its just my opinion dude. Yeah and your opinion is moronic; that's my point. >i get a good feeling from treating my woman to dinner and i believe more men should as well? You addressed nothing I said and just repeated yourself. Not going to repeat myself, too. Are you aware of how conversations work, bud?
2022-04-04 05:53
1 reply
then we disagree and i wish you a nice evening
2022-04-04 05:54
good idea next time I'll sell my stocks and take out all my money from the bank, bring it with me. then show it and let her know that I will only pay my part but, as she can clearly see, COULD pay hers too but chose not to cuz i dont wanna look like a loser
2022-04-03 01:59
2 replies
lul true, that part makes no sense
2022-04-03 02:02
#10
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Brazil ZerongBr
lol no, it's just to give a glare that makes her understand what you're doing is purposely done. Besides, there's more ways to show them you're chivalrous, wealth and well-educated, paying the full is just something that is expected of men to do, which I obviously won't because I want to show that for me, me and she are equals
2022-04-03 02:09
pay the bill if it was your suggestion to go to the restaurant (or whatever), the same way you'd pay the cinema tickets if you were the one to set up the plan to go to the movies with her (or whatever). otherwise, don't pay bills for girls, especially if you're a student and she's one too. everybody knows both sides have the same amount of money, so there's no point pretending or being chivalrous(?)
2022-04-03 02:01
my hand does not go to the Restaurant with me
2022-04-03 02:13
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#15
ropz | 
United States Goob
leave your hand at home or dont eat out?
2022-04-03 02:29
1 reply
Maybe he‘s got a prosthetic that he doesn’t wear in public
2022-04-03 15:49
you just pay it whole, there's no second date if you don't, they lose all respect instantly
2022-04-03 02:15
6 replies
LMAO wrong
2022-04-03 04:40
2 replies
in American culture that's what it is
2022-04-03 06:21
1 reply
maybe for betas
2022-04-03 18:49
But the problem is many women turn up for dates just to have a free meal, and not actually date you.
2022-04-03 08:41
2 replies
Used to do exactly that a few years ago
2022-04-03 16:15
unfortunately, that's just what you end up dealing with usually you kinda get the idea of if they'll do it or not based on stereotyping if they're a party type
2022-04-03 21:50
its not 1950's, girls should be paying their half of the bill on the first date. some girls might even get offended that it might be a gesture that you think she can't hold her own. some girls are crazy miss independent
2022-04-03 02:15
I just have the girl buy the full thing
2022-04-03 02:15
If it's a date obviously pay for all, if it's a female friend with no intention of dating, half it
2022-04-03 02:33
if it's a date pay full. especially if you asked her out. if it's just a friend, split.
2022-04-03 02:37
3 replies
+1 It would be amazing if she paid
2022-04-03 02:47
1 reply
If she is a sugar mommy she will
2022-04-03 08:43
#78
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Poland Ence_Pence
Yes and then pay for everything your queen wants
2022-04-03 09:24
dine and dash, easy
2022-04-03 02:39
Half of it its 2022
2022-04-03 02:50
Depends how much I like them. If its my family or longterm gf then I will pay
2022-04-03 02:51
#23
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United States KhT
Split in any situation,I am really selfish when it comes to the money.
2022-04-03 02:52
#25
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Singapore kmslol
force her to pay all of it
2022-04-03 02:56
1 reply
based
2022-04-03 18:49
You ask her if she going back to your house, that answer will decide what you do.
2022-04-03 03:56
5 replies
so she's a hooker?
2022-04-03 04:41
4 replies
not necessarily
2022-04-03 13:05
#126
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Europe B0OMER
everyone's a hooker we just sell different parts of ourselves
2022-04-03 18:38
2 replies
nice thomas shelby quote
2022-04-03 18:48
1 reply
#138
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Europe B0OMER
man of culture i see :D
2022-04-03 18:52
i will pretend to go to wc...
2022-04-03 04:12
talk about it first so u both understand and avoid awkwardness during the date (communication is really important if u want a relationship) 1. first few dates = if u ask them out and plan everything I would say offer to pay full, but usually ushould split since its more fair for everyone 2. after a few dates one person pays full and the other person pays the next bill but best advice i can give u is to not get dating advice from hltv forums
2022-04-03 04:35
last time the girl paid for my drink
2022-04-03 04:37
never pay full the first date. If a woman does not want to date you because of that, you're dodging a bullet. A woman who expects you to pay for everything is not a woman you want. She will kill your finances
2022-04-03 04:42
If i asked her out im offering to pay but its nice when they offer to split it with you.
2022-04-03 04:54
I've been with my girl for more than 2 years and while I used to pay for everything, sometimes she pays for the dates now. It's really about what you and your girlfriend are cool with. I still pay for 90% of dinners but sometimes she will buy food for me. Doesn't matter at the end of the day.
2022-04-03 05:02
12 replies
she is milking you
2022-04-03 05:07
11 replies
I have enough money to pay for the dates and not have to worry about it. If she wants to milk me out of $20 of food once a week on a datenight then so be it. She's still a great girlfriend and the sex is worth it lmao
2022-04-03 05:09
8 replies
sometimes im rebelling against god for not creating me as a woman when I see people like you
2022-04-03 05:11
7 replies
people like me? people who enjoy making their significant other happy? or people with money? Either way, İyi geceler kardeş
2022-04-03 05:15
6 replies
iyi geceler abi
2022-04-03 05:16
#68
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Canada MiLkBaGzz
Yeah man people like you. In a happy relationship with a great girl. just despicable
2022-04-03 07:08
4 replies
I've had my fair share of terrible girlfriends growing up haha it was about time I was due for a pretty good one
2022-04-03 18:28
3 replies
#132
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Canada MiLkBaGzz
lol +1 i was just making fun of #47 hope youre happy, & i wish you two the best.
2022-04-03 18:44
2 replies
name checks out
2022-04-04 05:06
1 reply
#177
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Canada MiLkBaGzz
that makes no sense but thank you anyways
2022-04-04 06:15
#131
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Europe B0OMER
turks know something about milking others dont you
2022-04-03 18:42
1 reply
why you mad bro
2022-04-04 05:05
Eh, always pay.
2022-04-03 05:04
Say you need to go to wc and run off
2022-04-03 05:08
1 reply
#43
XeqtR | 
Australia Kree8
Damn u beat me
2022-04-03 05:09
#42
XeqtR | 
Australia Kree8
Pretend to go to the toilet, but run out on the bill. Winner
2022-04-03 05:08
1 reply
Done this and feels like dodging a bullet
2022-04-03 06:22
All you’re proving is that you care about frivolous shit like paying for a meal.
2022-04-03 05:09
#48
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United States cybonics
Depends on where we're goin
2022-04-03 05:14
Depends. If its an hltv mens then yes pay full if its just another girl the no she can pay it all
2022-04-03 05:19
1 reply
+1
2022-04-03 06:21
im old af compared to you guys... i've never split a check even when ive walked out on bad dates- (left them at the table as I left). from first date to last with them i always paid.. broke or not broke I always made it happen. Not a manly thing, just never want or have to ask for anything from anyone. If I ask you out, I'm paying. If its a girl thats a friend, sure we splitting.. but if im taking you home, trust me im getting my monies worth :)
2022-04-03 05:20
1 reply
I am 28, today most girls will suck every penny out of a guy they discover to be like you describe yourself. Funny thing is when the opposite happens they make a movie out of it (Tinder Swindler), and fundraising to "return their financial health". Society supports parasites anything new here. If I ask them out, I bring them to my home for dinner. Sometimes I meet at a coffee in the afternoon, and I do it like a joint action, where both have the will to meet. On the way out, dont matter the outcome, I will pay for what I had, let her pay hers.
2022-04-03 06:21
I think it depends on country culture. In the US I heard you're gonna want to pick up the tab in the first date, but in Brazil honestly fuck it, if she feels offended by having to pay her part she's probably a douche anyway
2022-04-03 05:23
It depends, if she is a feminist you should demand her to pay all, including your rent and other monthly expenses. She must do the laundry and the dishes and do all maintenance in the house. She will happilly do it to demonstrate "equality", after all, she can do whatever a man can do. Of course she that is not the girl you bang, as you want a feminine woman for that, which is submissive, nurturing and delicate. You want someone agreeable, gentle, humble and kind to share your life with, you really dont need a woman if she adds another layer of unnecessary complexity on your routine. As the other bitch do the hard work deliberately and go to protests with her hanging tits, find a good woman to whom you can sum your genes and make beautiful children, someone who is young, loyal and complements your life harmoniously. If you are not sure how you feel spending money on your date, she is probably is not worth the hassle. Move over to the next. Accept no less than what you deserve, champions.
2022-04-03 06:10
7 replies
You could just have said "I'm a big incel" and people wouldn't need to read all of that text
2022-04-03 09:15
5 replies
#96
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Taiwan Lily_Amane
Cope
2022-04-03 15:50
1 reply
I like copium
2022-04-03 15:59
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2022-04-03 18:35
2 replies
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2022-04-03 18:36
1 reply
+1
2022-04-03 18:57
LMAO
2022-04-03 16:09
split
2022-04-03 06:21
split, probably different in west tho
2022-04-03 06:36
I don't really go on dates period anymore, let a lone a restaurant. xD. Had a gf, but realized that the homies are better in every way except sex(haven't tested whether they are or aren't).
2022-04-03 06:37
You pay dinner she pay condoms /closed
2022-04-03 06:41
3 replies
She raise child
2022-04-03 06:49
2 replies
You pay child support
2022-04-03 16:18
1 reply
Catch me if you can
2022-04-03 18:24
Depends on your financial situation and the length of the relationship. I'd say pay fully on the first couple of days than later on split as the relationship evolve.
2022-04-03 06:44
I think a good general rule is to always offer to pay the first three nights out? Roughly that's obviously going to depend if you are younger. Only caveat is if she asked you out but even then I'd pay. If she insists on splitting that tells you something same if she doesn't. If after a month or so dating she still wants you to pay 100% I would honestly run. Most girls in my experience even in super woke America aren't going to expect you to pay like that every single time.
2022-04-03 07:02
#67
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Canada MiLkBaGzz
Depends on the pricetag tbh. Typically i prefer to split. But if its cheap enough i will offer to pay
2022-04-03 07:07
It depends. Some girls like to pay their half, some do not. Ask the girl and if she freaks out then you dodged a bullet on a crazy bitch.
2022-04-03 08:20
#70
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Netherlands pvuly
Just pay the full thing if your lucky she will start paying sometimes too so it’s all good in the end
2022-04-03 08:25
Split
2022-04-03 09:12
9 replies
Good. Because I want to take you out but I'm poor
2022-04-03 15:10
1 reply
Oh 😳 I'd make an exception with you and invite you but I don't have much money either !
2022-04-03 15:36
you would pay full bill at first date lol stop lying
2022-04-03 22:43
6 replies
No
2022-04-03 22:48
5 replies
it is impression on girl grills like rich people and free stuff
2022-04-03 22:49
4 replies
I'm not rich nor Santa Claus
2022-04-03 22:49
3 replies
girls like presents and dating splitting on first date would be awkward and would give girl bad impression girls are snake anyways they would dump on you after couple bad dates
2022-04-03 22:50
2 replies
Maybe in Turkey but it's 2022 and men don't have to always invite girls
2022-04-03 22:52
1 reply
girls are same in everywhere lul unless ur good looking or known rich no grill would approach u you have to make first step and earn trust of girl
2022-04-03 22:54
If you pay, you set yourself up for failure.
2022-04-03 09:20
If I set up the date chances are I'll most likely pay it fully, but that also depends if I can see a future date coming or not.
2022-04-03 09:24
#80
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Bulgaria ramkain
First few dates the man should pay. When the relationship deepens it won't really matter, but from time to time surprise dinners (in which the man pays) are always welcomed :)
2022-04-03 09:28
4 replies
#84
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France d0py
"First few dates the man should pay" lmao
2022-04-03 13:08
3 replies
#88
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Bulgaria ramkain
I don't know why you laughing - we different cultures. I just point out how I would do it as an answer to OP's question :P
2022-04-03 15:03
2 replies
It's true, if you don't pay the first dates at least you are weird here... you also need a car.
2022-04-03 15:45
1 reply
#106
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Bulgaria ramkain
weird and lame yeah
2022-04-03 16:19
Definitely split. No need to pay for her, especially on a first date!
2022-04-03 09:45
#82
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Australia B_Tannen
split
2022-04-03 09:55
#85
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Switzerland Imodeode
Paying full is a nice gesture imo, but I wouldn’t do it if the price was too high.
2022-04-03 13:14
I always offer to pay for everything, but my girl usually pays every other time, just cuz she wants to.
2022-04-03 13:15
1 reply
exactly the same for me
2022-04-03 15:51
Depends how the date goes.
2022-04-03 13:15
2 replies
If you did bang her on the restroom no point on paying anything, right? Unless she is a prostitute ofc
2022-04-03 18:39
1 reply
Extreme example but yes
2022-04-03 20:28
#91
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Turkey Schadi
Whoever invited for the date should pay imo but after you get more comfortable you should both pay like sometimes you spmetimes her
2022-04-03 15:14
on the first date i paid but then we started to split i think this is the right one to do
2022-04-03 16:12
You can / should pay full bill 1st date . Than split / full pay rotation , You can pay more Times full but not always . Paying always full bill will affect the relationship , because the Man thinks their partener own him everything , this is why in eastern europe , Man are abusive towards womens . Dont be afraid to comunicate about it .
2022-04-03 16:23
If its a random first tinder date you don't pay anything, tell her a day before the date that you want to reschedule because of some fraud alert on your card and that you can't use it and if she likes you enough she'll offer to cover. If it's during a relationship keep it 50/50. This isn't 1970 anymore where you can carry an entire family with a single income. Shits expensive and its better to invest now than dump everything on food
2022-04-03 16:28
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#117
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Canada Hayaaa
What are you talking about you can’t carry a home on a single income… lol wtf career path did you take… obvs not a good one. 👍
2022-04-03 17:41
2 replies
I'm a software dev so I'm fine but the average Canadian no longer has that luxury because of inflation and our housing crisis
2022-04-03 22:46
1 reply
#161
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Canada Hayaaa
well thats good then. thumbs up for you. right out of highschool, ive been surviving with no hand outs or assistance from family. you just cant be a lazy tit, and you'll be fine living in canada. im in iron worker in BC living in the GVRD, i bought my first home at the age of 24... ive been with a stable income since i graduated in 2007. lmfao the average canadian is a whimp.
2022-04-03 22:56
Depends on the situation. If I'm having a meal with one of my girl friends and it's an auspicious occasion, I'll pay the full amount. Otherwise, if it's just a usual meal out, we will usually split the bill between how many of us there are.
2022-04-03 16:31
2 replies
wtf is auspicious occasion just call it a fucking date
2022-04-03 22:53
1 reply
I don't go on "dates", though. Dates usually involve romance, I just have the occasional meal out with my girl friends. How have you never heard of an auspicious occasion? Like birthdays, weddings or certain annual celebrations, etc...
2022-04-04 00:00
#110
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United States Phamous3k
Lol kids If you asked her out you pay. If she asked you out uhhh I would still offer but, that’s situational.
2022-04-03 17:29
1 reply
#116
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Canada Hayaaa
That’s what I’m sayin!!!
2022-04-03 17:40
#113
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Finland 5way
always split
2022-04-03 17:37
#115
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Canada Hayaaa
Who asked who. The inviter pays.. if your already dating this person. It’s a different story. Like if she makes you food at home and treats you good. You pay for that shit. Be a man. But she she don’t husband you up and you don’t wife her up. Fair game to ask to split I suppose…. You kids are in a whole different world over there. Where all the men at?
2022-04-03 17:40
#120
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Denmark Weylyn2
I just run before I even get to that point
2022-04-03 18:31
pay me in full bitch.. you owe me 100 bucks remember..
2022-04-03 18:33
nooo cigani be
2022-04-03 18:35
bro just pay
2022-04-03 18:39
3 replies
#144
TenZ | 
Japan aki!
Simp
2022-04-03 20:08
2 replies
ur probably a nerd with acne
2022-04-03 20:08
1 reply
#146
TenZ | 
Japan aki!
And you look like a walking soy wojak Go eat some impossible whoppers
2022-04-03 20:10
Pay for yourself and buy hookers
2022-04-03 18:50
#143
TenZ | 
Japan aki!
Dine and dash
2022-04-03 20:08
You shouldn't split unless she really wants to.
2022-04-03 20:31
depends if i had a good time, i take the bill. if it was awkward or boring, mayb i'll split but mostly i just pay.
2022-04-03 22:44
I would pay for the full bill unless the woman wants to split it. I'm a little traditional in that sense
2022-04-03 22:55
If you're a man you pay the bill because that's what you're duty will be for the rest of your life and it should start from the beginning in order to show that you are a man who can fulfill his duties
2022-04-04 05:10
i always make my woman pay for everything
2022-04-04 05:26
i handle the bill she handles the balls
2022-04-04 05:36
Idealistic answer: Split it Practical answer: Never let a girl pay
2022-04-04 05:37
Pay the first date, after that split. Or in a relationship you can take turns paying the bill.
2022-04-04 05:56
realistic answer: i aint getting a date
2022-04-04 06:00
Always pay on a date Never pay with friends
2022-04-04 06:56
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