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You're in a date and have those two options. What would you do? Pay the entire bill or only your part? I'd pay my part but letting the girl know that I'm doing this purposely and not because I can't pay her part
Cant really remember the last time I had to pay for my own food at a date
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+1 this dudes got it figured out
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Real mens have cooking skills better than chef, only peasants need to go to restaurant
no he gets it paid for (name checks out)
I do go on dates and pretty much never pay.
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do you at least sex them?
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Sometimes, if im horny and they are good looking
Depends on length of relationship.
Earlier I would pay full bill but only for first couple dates then split it
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at last i have found true wisdom on hltv
True, but I guess op meant on the first dates
From my experience the girls usually insist to split
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If they insist to split I will split
pay the full bill, a real man always treats the woman on a first date
but once youre in a relationship, obviously split
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depends on your financial situation, if you're in the position with little leftover income then that shouldn't stop you from being able to date, but if you're in the position to pay the full bill, you should
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if youre low on cash, improvise, cook a meal for both of you at your place for example
cheap and you can make it as romantic as you like
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its not like you have to cook something extraordinary, its more about just making the impression
women love a man who can cook, and when you put effort into creating a date at your place, who wouldnt appreciate that? its a good first impression and show of character
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+1 and making a basic but tasty meal isn’t hard at all, practice it once or twice and basically nothing can go wrong
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exactly right
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of course you can argue about feminism
its just my opinion that when you treat a woman on the first date, it shows her your values and *should* give you a good feeling afterwards
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honestly yeah, depends on the woman, if the date isn't going great, or they seem to purposefully ordering expensive items to see your reaction, make em pay, women like that aren't worth your time or money
wdym by "good feeling" as in sex?
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if youre going on a date, it should make you feel good to be treating a woman to dinner
"Real man" lmao. Please do not be brainwashed
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brainwashed?
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yes brainwashed. there's no logical reason why you couldnt flip the genders of the arguments you made. why shouldnt women show men their true values or treat the man? xD it makes no sense.
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its just my opinion dude. i get a good feeling from treating my woman to dinner and i believe more men should as well?
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>its just my opinion dude.
Yeah and your opinion is moronic; that's my point.
>i get a good feeling from treating my woman to dinner and i believe more men should as well?
You addressed nothing I said and just repeated yourself. Not going to repeat myself, too.
Are you aware of how conversations work, bud?
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then we disagree and i wish you a nice evening
good idea
next time I'll sell my stocks and take out all my money from the bank, bring it with me. then show it and let her know that I will only pay my part but, as she can clearly see, COULD pay hers too but chose not to
cuz i dont wanna look like a loser
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lul true, that part makes no sense
lol no, it's just to give a glare that makes her understand what you're doing is purposely done. Besides, there's more ways to show them you're chivalrous, wealth and well-educated, paying the full is just something that is expected of men to do, which I obviously won't because I want to show that for me, me and she are equals
pay the bill if it was your suggestion to go to the restaurant (or whatever), the same way you'd pay the cinema tickets if you were the one to set up the plan to go to the movies with her (or whatever).
otherwise, don't pay bills for girls, especially if you're a student and she's one too. everybody knows both sides have the same amount of money, so there's no point pretending or being chivalrous(?)
my hand does not go to the Restaurant with me
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you just pay it whole, there's no second date if you don't, they lose all respect instantly
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LMAO
wrong
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But the problem is many women turn up for dates just to have a free meal, and not actually date you.
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Used to do exactly that a few years ago
unfortunately, that's just what you end up dealing with
usually you kinda get the idea of if they'll do it or not based on stereotyping if they're a party type
I just have the girl buy the full thing
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+1 It would be amazing if she paid
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If she is a sugar mommy she will
Yes and then pay for everything your queen wants
dine and dash, easy
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based
You ask her if she going back to your house, that answer will decide what you do.
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so she's a hooker?
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not necessarily
i will pretend to go to wc...
talk about it first so u both understand and avoid awkwardness during the date (communication is really important if u want a relationship)
1. first few dates = if u ask them out and plan everything I would say offer to pay full, but usually ushould split since its more fair for everyone
2. after a few dates one person pays full and the other person pays the next bill
but best advice i can give u is to not get dating advice from hltv forums
last time the girl paid for my drink
never pay full the first date. If a woman does not want to date you because of that, you're dodging a bullet. A woman who expects you to pay for everything is not a woman you want. She will kill your finances
If i asked her out im offering to pay but its nice when they offer to split it with you.
I've been with my girl for more than 2 years and while I used to pay for everything, sometimes she pays for the dates now. It's really about what you and your girlfriend are cool with. I still pay for 90% of dinners but sometimes she will buy food for me. Doesn't matter at the end of the day.
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Done this and feels like dodging a bullet
All you’re proving is that you care about frivolous shit like paying for a meal.
Depends. If its an hltv mens then yes pay full if its just another girl the no she can pay it all
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+1
im old af compared to you guys... i've never split a check even when ive walked out on bad dates- (left them at the table as I left). from first date to last with them i always paid.. broke or not broke I always made it happen. Not a manly thing, just never want or have to ask for anything from anyone. If I ask you out, I'm paying. If its a girl thats a friend, sure we splitting.. but if im taking you home, trust me im getting my monies worth :)
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I am 28, today most girls will suck every penny out of a guy they discover to be like you describe yourself. Funny thing is when the opposite happens they make a movie out of it (Tinder Swindler), and fundraising to "return their financial health". Society supports parasites anything new here.
If I ask them out, I bring them to my home for dinner. Sometimes I meet at a coffee in the afternoon, and I do it like a joint action, where both have the will to meet. On the way out, dont matter the outcome, I will pay for what I had, let her pay hers.
I think it depends on country culture. In the US I heard you're gonna want to pick up the tab in the first date, but in Brazil honestly fuck it, if she feels offended by having to pay her part she's probably a douche anyway
It depends, if she is a feminist you should demand her to pay all, including your rent and other monthly expenses. She must do the laundry and the dishes and do all maintenance in the house. She will happilly do it to demonstrate "equality", after all, she can do whatever a man can do.
Of course she that is not the girl you bang, as you want a feminine woman for that, which is submissive, nurturing and delicate. You want someone agreeable, gentle, humble and kind to share your life with, you really dont need a woman if she adds another layer of unnecessary complexity on your routine.
As the other bitch do the hard work deliberately and go to protests with her hanging tits, find a good woman to whom you can sum your genes and make beautiful children, someone who is young, loyal and complements your life harmoniously.
If you are not sure how you feel spending money on your date, she is probably is not worth the hassle. Move over to the next.
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+1
split, probably different in west tho
I don't really go on dates period anymore, let a lone a restaurant. xD. Had a gf, but realized that the homies are better in every way except sex(haven't tested whether they are or aren't).
You pay dinner she pay condoms
/closed
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She raise child
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I think a good general rule is to always offer to pay the first three nights out? Roughly that's obviously going to depend if you are younger. Only caveat is if she asked you out but even then I'd pay.
If she insists on splitting that tells you something same if she doesn't.
If after a month or so dating she still wants you to pay 100% I would honestly run. Most girls in my experience even in super woke America aren't going to expect you to pay like that every single time.
It depends. Some girls like to pay their half, some do not. Ask the girl and if she freaks out then you dodged a bullet on a crazy bitch.
Split
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Good.
Because I want to take you out but I'm poor
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Oh 😳
I'd make an exception with you and invite you but I don't have much money either !
you would pay full bill at first date lol stop lying
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No
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it is impression on girl
grills like rich people and free stuff
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I'm not rich nor Santa Claus
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girls like presents and dating splitting on first date would be awkward and would give girl bad impression
girls are snake anyways they would dump on you after couple bad dates
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Maybe in Turkey but it's 2022 and men don't have to always invite girls
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girls are same in everywhere lul
unless ur good looking or known rich no grill would approach u
you have to make first step and earn trust of girl
If you pay, you set yourself up for failure.
If I set up the date chances are I'll most likely pay it fully, but that also depends if I can see a future date coming or not.
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Depends how the date goes.
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If you did bang her on the restroom no point on paying anything, right? Unless she is a prostitute ofc
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Extreme example but yes
on the first date i paid but then we started to split i think this is the right one to do
You can / should pay full bill 1st date . Than split / full pay rotation , You can pay more Times full but not always . Paying always full bill will affect the relationship , because the Man thinks their partener own him everything , this is why in eastern europe , Man are abusive towards womens . Dont be afraid to comunicate about it .
If its a random first tinder date you don't pay anything, tell her a day before the date that you want to reschedule because of some fraud alert on your card and that you can't use it and if she likes you enough she'll offer to cover.
If it's during a relationship keep it 50/50. This isn't 1970 anymore where you can carry an entire family with a single income. Shits expensive and its better to invest now than dump everything on food
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I'm a software dev so I'm fine but the average Canadian no longer has that luxury because of inflation and our housing crisis
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well thats good then. thumbs up for you.
right out of highschool, ive been surviving with no hand outs or assistance from family.
you just cant be a lazy tit, and you'll be fine living in canada.
im in iron worker in BC living in the GVRD, i bought my first home at the age of 24... ive been with a stable income since i graduated in 2007. lmfao the average canadian is a whimp.
Depends on the situation.
If I'm having a meal with one of my girl friends and it's an auspicious occasion, I'll pay the full amount. Otherwise, if it's just a usual meal out, we will usually split the bill between how many of us there are.
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wtf is auspicious occasion just call it a fucking date
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I don't go on "dates", though.
Dates usually involve romance, I just have the occasional meal out with my girl friends.
How have you never heard of an auspicious occasion? Like birthdays, weddings or certain annual celebrations, etc...
Who asked who. The inviter pays.. if your already dating this person. It’s a different story.
Like if she makes you food at home and treats you good. You pay for that shit. Be a man. But she she don’t husband you up and you don’t wife her up.
Fair game to ask to split I suppose…. You kids are in a whole different world over there.
Where all the men at?
bro just pay
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Pay for yourself and buy hookers
You shouldn't split unless she really wants to.
depends if i had a good time, i take the bill. if it was awkward or boring, mayb i'll split but mostly i just pay.
I would pay for the full bill unless the woman wants to split it.
I'm a little traditional in that sense
If you're a man you pay the bill because that's what you're duty will be for the rest of your life and it should start from the beginning in order to show that you are a man who can fulfill his duties
i handle the bill
she handles the balls
Pay the first date, after that split. Or in a relationship you can take turns paying the bill.
realistic answer: i aint getting a date
Always pay on a date
Never pay with friends
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