Cant really remember the last time I had to pay for my own food at a date
Depends on length of relationship.
Earlier I would pay full bill but only for first couple dates then split it
pay the full bill, a real man always treats the woman on a first date
but once youre in a relationship, obviously split
next time I'll sell my stocks and take out all my money from the bank, bring it with me. then show it and let her know that I will only pay my part but, as she can clearly see, COULD pay hers too but chose not to
cuz i dont wanna look like a loser
pay the bill if it was your suggestion to go to the restaurant (or whatever), the same way you'd pay the cinema tickets if you were the one to set up the plan to go to the movies with her (or whatever).
otherwise, don't pay bills for girls, especially if you're a student and she's one too. everybody knows both sides have the same amount of money, so there's no point pretending or being chivalrous(?)
my hand does not go to the Restaurant with me
you just pay it whole, there's no second date if you don't, they lose all respect instantly
its not 1950's, girls should be paying their half of the bill on the first date. some girls might even get offended that it might be a gesture that you think she can't hold her own. some girls are crazy miss independent
I just have the girl buy the full thing
If it's a date obviously pay for all, if it's a female friend with no intention of dating, half it
if it's a date pay full. especially if you asked her out. if it's just a friend, split.
Depends how much I like them. If its my family or longterm gf then I will pay
Split in any situation,I am really selfish when it comes to the money.
force her to pay all of it
You ask her if she going back to your house, that answer will decide what you do.
i will pretend to go to wc...
talk about it first so u both understand and avoid awkwardness during the date (communication is really important if u want a relationship)
1. first few dates = if u ask them out and plan everything I would say offer to pay full, but usually ushould split since its more fair for everyone
2. after a few dates one person pays full and the other person pays the next bill
but best advice i can give u is to not get dating advice from hltv forums
last time the girl paid for my drink
never pay full the first date. If a woman does not want to date you because of that, you're dodging a bullet. A woman who expects you to pay for everything is not a woman you want. She will kill your finances
If i asked her out im offering to pay but its nice when they offer to split it with you.
I've been with my girl for more than 2 years and while I used to pay for everything, sometimes she pays for the dates now. It's really about what you and your girlfriend are cool with. I still pay for 90% of dinners but sometimes she will buy food for me. Doesn't matter at the end of the day.
Say you need to go to wc and run off
Pretend to go to the toilet, but run out on the bill.
All you’re proving is that you care about frivolous shit like paying for a meal.
Depends on where we're goin
Depends. If its an hltv mens then yes pay full if its just another girl the no she can pay it all
im old af compared to you guys... i've never split a check even when ive walked out on bad dates- (left them at the table as I left). from first date to last with them i always paid.. broke or not broke I always made it happen. Not a manly thing, just never want or have to ask for anything from anyone. If I ask you out, I'm paying. If its a girl thats a friend, sure we splitting.. but if im taking you home, trust me im getting my monies worth :)
I think it depends on country culture. In the US I heard you're gonna want to pick up the tab in the first date, but in Brazil honestly fuck it, if she feels offended by having to pay her part she's probably a douche anyway
It depends, if she is a feminist you should demand her to pay all, including your rent and other monthly expenses. She must do the laundry and the dishes and do all maintenance in the house. She will happilly do it to demonstrate "equality", after all, she can do whatever a man can do.
Of course she that is not the girl you bang, as you want a feminine woman for that, which is submissive, nurturing and delicate. You want someone agreeable, gentle, humble and kind to share your life with, you really dont need a woman if she adds another layer of unnecessary complexity on your routine.
As the other bitch do the hard work deliberately and go to protests with her hanging tits, find a good woman to whom you can sum your genes and make beautiful children, someone who is young, loyal and complements your life harmoniously.
If you are not sure how you feel spending money on your date, she is probably is not worth the hassle. Move over to the next.
Accept no less than what you deserve, champions.
split, probably different in west tho
I don't really go on dates period anymore, let a lone a restaurant. xD. Had a gf, but realized that the homies are better in every way except sex(haven't tested whether they are or aren't).
You pay dinner she pay condoms
Depends on your financial situation and the length of the relationship. I'd say pay fully on the first couple of days than later on split as the relationship evolve.
I think a good general rule is to always offer to pay the first three nights out? Roughly that's obviously going to depend if you are younger. Only caveat is if she asked you out but even then I'd pay.
If she insists on splitting that tells you something same if she doesn't.
If after a month or so dating she still wants you to pay 100% I would honestly run. Most girls in my experience even in super woke America aren't going to expect you to pay like that every single time.
Depends on the pricetag tbh. Typically i prefer to split. But if its cheap enough i will offer to pay
It depends. Some girls like to pay their half, some do not. Ask the girl and if she freaks out then you dodged a bullet on a crazy bitch.
Just pay the full thing if your lucky she will start paying sometimes too so it’s all good in the end
If you pay, you set yourself up for failure.
If I set up the date chances are I'll most likely pay it fully, but that also depends if I can see a future date coming or not.
First few dates the man should pay. When the relationship deepens it won't really matter, but from time to time surprise dinners (in which the man pays) are always welcomed :)
Definitely split. No need to pay for her, especially on a first date!
Paying full is a nice gesture imo, but I wouldn’t do it if the price was too high.
I always offer to pay for everything, but my girl usually pays every other time, just cuz she wants to.
Depends how the date goes.
Whoever invited for the date should pay imo but after you get more comfortable you should both pay like sometimes you spmetimes her
on the first date i paid but then we started to split i think this is the right one to do
You can / should pay full bill 1st date . Than split / full pay rotation , You can pay more Times full but not always . Paying always full bill will affect the relationship , because the Man thinks their partener own him everything , this is why in eastern europe , Man are abusive towards womens . Dont be afraid to comunicate about it .
If its a random first tinder date you don't pay anything, tell her a day before the date that you want to reschedule because of some fraud alert on your card and that you can't use it and if she likes you enough she'll offer to cover.
If it's during a relationship keep it 50/50. This isn't 1970 anymore where you can carry an entire family with a single income. Shits expensive and its better to invest now than dump everything on food
Depends on the situation.
If I'm having a meal with one of my girl friends and it's an auspicious occasion, I'll pay the full amount. Otherwise, if it's just a usual meal out, we will usually split the bill between how many of us there are.
If you asked her out you pay. If she asked you out uhhh I would still offer but, that’s situational.
Who asked who. The inviter pays.. if your already dating this person. It’s a different story.
Like if she makes you food at home and treats you good. You pay for that shit. Be a man. But she she don’t husband you up and you don’t wife her up.
Fair game to ask to split I suppose…. You kids are in a whole different world over there.
Where all the men at?
I just run before I even get to that point
pay me in full bitch.. you owe me 100 bucks remember..
Pay for yourself and buy hookers
You shouldn't split unless she really wants to.
depends if i had a good time, i take the bill. if it was awkward or boring, mayb i'll split but mostly i just pay.
I would pay for the full bill unless the woman wants to split it.
I'm a little traditional in that sense
If you're a man you pay the bill because that's what you're duty will be for the rest of your life and it should start from the beginning in order to show that you are a man who can fulfill his duties
i always make my woman pay for everything
i handle the bill
she handles the balls
Idealistic answer: Split it
Practical answer: Never let a girl pay
Pay the first date, after that split. Or in a relationship you can take turns paying the bill.
realistic answer: i aint getting a date
Always pay on a date
Never pay with friends