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Is having a gf worth it
broky | 
Brazil Eternal_Goldnova 
Asking for a friend
2022-07-30 02:10
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yes
2022-07-30 02:10
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#107
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Canada KoldfuR1a
+1
2022-07-30 12:17
yes and no
2022-07-30 02:11
2 replies
exacty hah
2022-07-30 11:06
+1
2022-07-30 12:17
#4
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Guatemala ChurchGuy
Idk
2022-07-30 02:11
Idk. There are pros and cons to having one and not having one. Depends what your priorities are
2022-07-30 02:12
#7
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San Marino Loyuu
Both, unless you're dating a bitch, you have to decide for yourself mate and be smart
2022-07-30 02:16
you make it sound like a task or obligation , its not a task its for fun , sometimes you find a amazing person, and when you dont you just move on
2022-07-30 02:15
No, its time consuming and you'll argue all the time
2022-07-30 02:18
2 replies
You totally grasped the concept of a living partnership. Have you ever been in one?
2022-07-30 11:48
1 reply
yes actually
2022-07-30 13:26
there's 23 hours and 57 minutes you have to spend with her after the 3 minute seks is over. be careful
2022-07-30 02:19
10 replies
golden comment))
2022-07-30 02:42
#33
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Latvia emzijs
but mens, what to do if seks is only 1 minute? what do i do the next 23 hours and 59 minutes?
2022-07-30 02:49
2 replies
maybe get 2 full time jobs and invest in a crate of viagra 🤔
2022-07-30 10:59
#174
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Germany ChRiZOwow
Play counter strike :D
2022-08-03 22:12
#68
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Netherlands SpiceNut
What if she doesn't want seks?
2022-07-30 10:45
2 replies
then you pull out the ole reliable "this is not working Jenny it's me not you, you deserve better"
2022-07-30 11:00
1 reply
but its carla mens (((
2022-07-30 12:52
Weirdest relationship I've ever heard of
2022-07-30 11:49
2 replies
it's a normal relationship not hentai
2022-07-30 11:55
1 reply
People here make it sound like having a relationship means moving in or even spending all the time with the partner. That's just insane.
2022-07-30 12:06
Of course You can use 1 flat together -> less money to pay Also less household chores
2022-07-30 02:22
3 replies
thats my situation rn just moved in to a flat with my girl it might fail but it also might be the best decision ive ever made so u gotta take risks
2022-07-30 12:19
2 replies
Good luck to you!
2022-07-30 13:30
1 reply
thank you bro :)
2022-07-30 13:38
Depends on the girl
2022-07-30 02:22
Depends on you: do the pros out-weigh the cons?
2022-07-30 02:22
I would say yeah it has a lot of benefits to it, but if you are experiencing success at something it is very, very worthwhile to live on your own and do exactly what YOU WANT 24/7. Unless the relationship allows you to dictate 100% what you do at all times, it will probably stifle your freedom, and at the very least your time. If you have success and time & freedom to create it and enjoy it, there is nothing better in this world.
2022-07-30 02:23
9 replies
When you make a pros and cons list over having/not having a gf
2022-07-30 02:29
8 replies
Well, you don't need a GF to have sex, so that can't be a pro/con. If you want to experience an intimate relationship between you and another human and what that can entail and what that is like, it's a chance for you to grow as a person and do things you couldn't even imagine were possible. But those aren't pros/cons either, because you can take drugs for example to experience the same hormone highs, you can grow as a person while working for example, and you can do things unimaginable without GFs. So it comes down to time management, what people have for schedules or projects to take their time. Maybe condition program, maybe science, maybe a job, whatever. Is it imperative to have human contact? You can have human contact without GF. Me personally I am in a relationship and the pros include: amazing sex, amazing person to spend time with, no stressing out over dating and failed dates and contacts, work together towards common or uncommon goals, grow as human beings. Cons include: less time, less freedom, a lot of work and drama, emotional baggage.
2022-07-30 02:38
7 replies
very well said, i have a GF, although we a younger and both virgins the list looks similar: Pro: Amazing person, Love, Touching, Making eachother better people. Con: If she leaves me on delivered for too long. Ahhhhm, the simplicity of youth, i have legit 0 cons, just because im a teenager.
2022-07-30 02:40
2 replies
Alright, great to hear. I mean when I was a teenager, I wanted a GF because my body acted in a way that I would actively get crushes on people, because I really really enjoyed how beautiful and pretty girls were. I didn't have a sister growing up or any female friends, so girls were extremely fascinating to me. But I was very fucking awkward around them, so it was horrible to get to know them, mostly. And also, I was merely chasing my high. Getting crushes and falling into love felt good to me. So I was abusing my body for pleasure, and abusing my crushes for making them think I actually cared about them, when really I only cared about my own pleasure. But at least I didn't act like an asshole towards girls ever, I never shamed or treated a girl badly, I just desperately wanted to love and share that love with a girl. I didn't accept anyone though, just my crushes. Anyway, make sure you're not objectifying her for your own pleasure! People don't like when you objectify them and they find out.
2022-07-30 02:45
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The only person objectifying her in this relationship is her. Out of all the sexual/objectifiying that has been said she has said like 90%. I have a sister, and halvf of my friends are girls, they are not fascinating, but she is all that i would every want, i truly feel like she loves me, and thats all that i need.
2022-07-30 02:48
Well to your first point. Yes you can do things unimaginable yatta yatta without a gf, but for some people having a feeling of intimacy has a lot of intrinsic value
2022-07-30 11:50
3 replies
Of course, and I agree and live by your notion. I'm just clinically and technically speaking and breaking it down and reducing the factors to understandable terms for people wondering what it is about for the sake of discussion.
2022-07-30 12:05
2 replies
I tip my fedora to you sir, have a good day
2022-07-30 12:20
1 reply
Yeah, some amount of intimacy is possible between friends such as hugs and the like, but true romantic intimacy is only possible with a significant other. So that's definitely a pro. Thanks for adding.
2022-07-30 12:22
Everything has its pros and cons.
2022-07-30 02:24
Worth what? If you want to have your own time 24/7, no. If you want to have a relationship, yes. edit: if "your friend" is uncertain, why not try a relationship if she's willing and see how it goes.
2022-07-30 02:29
not in the long run i think
2022-07-30 02:28
Maybe, every second with her is the best of my life, every not is not.
2022-07-30 02:28
#22
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Sweden sn1pie
Having a girlfriend is one of the best things in life. But if it ends it is one of the worst things in life
2022-07-30 02:30
2 replies
yeah you gotta take the risk at some point tho cause if you dont you will just never find love
2022-07-30 12:20
1 reply
our entire species continues to exist on a Belief that not everyone is a Bastard and you will find someone great if we did not believe this no one would ever have a relationship is it a risk ? yes but you need to do it before you get too old
2022-08-03 22:27
#23
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Belgium KYC
yes its pretty nice, goddamnit......
2022-07-30 02:33
if cant live alone better to have a roomate coz at least they would leave you alone sometime, if have a gf its expected to always be around them and likely you don't share their interests, only downside is the social stigma around not having one which may negative impact on mental depending on whether you care or not
2022-07-30 02:35
If you find the right one.
2022-07-30 02:45
#32
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Portugal nci_on
only 2 reasons to have a gf. to use her for sex or because you actually like her and spending time with her. personally I dont think I could do nr.1 cause Im not a piece of shit
2022-07-30 02:48
1 reply
had me in the first half
2022-07-30 12:21
Not if you need to try so hard to keep her imo
2022-07-30 02:50
No
2022-07-30 02:56
1 reply
Yep, don't need suffer
2022-08-03 22:21
depends of the person, with the wrong one it will feel like a chore, with the right one you will feel like on top of the world
2022-07-30 03:03
#37
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Ukraine I_say_Ok
only if she is hltv user
2022-07-30 03:04
7 replies
#38
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United States Zedsamcat
Only correct answer
2022-07-30 03:15
femboys it is then.
2022-07-30 03:20
Militarygril? :O
2022-07-30 06:34
4 replies
dammit i was gonna say that shes mine!!
2022-07-30 12:21
3 replies
No wtf she dmed me
2022-07-30 21:32
2 replies
but she dmed me ?
2022-08-01 15:45
1 reply
No she didnt
2022-08-01 20:31
#40
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Poland c1icken
yes
2022-07-30 03:20
#41
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Poland IDIEYOUNG
girls destroy mens life
2022-07-30 03:20
yep sex every day
2022-07-30 03:21
3 replies
+1 can confirm, much better than being married
2022-07-30 03:25
2 replies
BASED GIGACHAD REAL MAN OPINION
2022-07-30 03:32
Just marry and have a gf on side gigachad
2022-07-30 11:53
yes
2022-07-30 03:22
Depends on the girl
2022-07-30 03:32
Yes and no
2022-07-30 06:00
#50
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England Hoshimachi
boys better
2022-07-30 06:05
2 replies
Sus
2022-07-30 06:42
Flair checks out
2022-07-30 13:35
#52
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Argentina asinov_90
yes
2022-07-30 06:19
Definitely yes
2022-07-30 09:56
Definitely yes
2022-07-30 10:01
Its fun while the "love" lasts. But don't fool your self, Love won't last forever.
2022-07-30 10:03
6 replies
Love does last if you have the right partner, love isnt just the feeling you have at the beginning ”butterflies in stomach” etc.
2022-07-30 10:28
5 replies
you are wrong.
2022-07-30 10:31
4 replies
I’m definitely not, but however you want to see it yourself is upto you.
2022-07-30 10:35
3 replies
You are blinded by your emotions and by the hope there is more to it than there really is. You are just romantic and probably pretty young. You get this chemical release in your brain you call love, so that you go ahead and breed. Your "love" will die down and you end up being together cause of convenience or financial reasons, or for the benefit of your spawn. And I am aware that people like to romanticize it a bit more.
2022-07-30 10:44
2 replies
I’m young, and do think I and my girlfriend are exceptional since rarely people even stick together. I do not find it as a reason of convenience or financial if I believe I’d be less without my partner, that I have felt more fulfilled with. And because it is too easy to say ” youre young, you dont know jack shit”, I could easily say the same of my parents that have been together for 30++ years. They laugh with each other they often visit childhood places and could talk endlessly even about the stupidest shit and still enjoy themselves. I do not see even an ounce of ”convinience” in spending so many hours on just hanging with eachother at the age of what they are.
2022-07-30 11:07
1 reply
Oh believe me, people hang with each other out of so many other things than love my friend :) Many are just too weak to break up. They can't face the conflict, so it is just easier to be with each other. And they can support each other just fine in many different ways, but saying its love is just naive.
2022-07-30 13:13
Incoming depressed teen answers
2022-07-30 10:11
9 replies
generalisation?
2022-07-30 13:29
8 replies
Only on hltv
2022-07-30 13:31
7 replies
i think its accurate to most teens these days we all are depressed
2022-07-30 13:32
6 replies
I still see some happy ones tbf.
2022-07-30 13:33
5 replies
this is gonna sound edgy but a large majority of teens are very depressed and/or have mental illness (actual anxiety etc)
2022-07-30 13:37
4 replies
A lot seem to also self diagnose themselves though, already happend when I was that age (not to say there hasn't been a major increase in these illnesses)
2022-07-30 13:38
3 replies
i think this isa wetsern thing (self diagnosis) i have not seen such in korea however i am not one to judge, bejng someone who has dealt with these issues and diagnosed, i can say that at least in korea, mental illness is overlooked on and everyone i knew actually were fucked up in one way or another, primarily due to academic stress and body image in both men and women. a kid even commited in our school wild
2022-07-30 13:44
2 replies
It might be worse here, sadly here it still gets overlooked too much because many who do have something serious leave it too long and don't reach out. Body image was and is still a big thing here, and it's getting worse with academic succes. Asia overall has always been really bad with that though, from what I've heard :/
2022-07-30 13:46
1 reply
body image is fucked up so many peoples lives, and i think its effects are prominent in this thread we hsve here, there is definitely a reason for people feeling so shitty because of how ugly they feel due to this body issues it sucks but we cant do anything about it i do envy pretty people though, especially as koreans are heralded for our good looks
2022-07-30 13:51
If you are asking then no
2022-07-30 10:12
definitely yes. Do not hurry* too much on finding a partner though.
2022-07-30 10:36
if shes nice
2022-07-30 10:36
Haha asking for a friend. Anyways ill answer in a serious manner. If its a cool girl with a supportive and chill out character that really likes you and you have fun with her with no drama, ghosting, manipulation, golddigging. toxicity, controlling then yes. Having a girl like that uplifts you and makes your life better with a lot of laughs and cuddling and support. From there all it needs is loyalty and trust to end up being something really special. If she is on the other side of things and you want her just because she is beautiful or for sex. NO bro. I would choose my sanity, my piece of mind , my positive vibes, my good energy over any girl like that all day. So choose wisely or you might get powned.
2022-07-30 10:41
6 replies
#70
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Europe Vallon5(1)
''u and you have fun with her with no drama, ghosting, manipulation, golddigging. toxicity, controlling then yes'' You realize it's almost completely impossible to find a girl without at least one of these, right... most of these are just in their nature.
2022-07-30 10:53
5 replies
too much andrew tate
2022-07-30 11:54
So just focus on yourself, and make yourself the object of desire by working hard and gaining achievements and success. Set things straight with any bitch that wants to spend time with you that you live life like you do, and you will not change for anybody else, especially if they are not willing to adapt to YOUR use of time. Of course, if you are a loser or fat or dumb, you won't be desired by anybody. Then you are forced to make compromises and settle for something less.
2022-07-30 12:02
a gf with no drama lmaoooo
2022-07-30 12:01
2 replies
Exactly, rofl.
2022-07-30 12:50
Ive had few in my life but they werent the slutiest or the prettiest looking wise. We cant say there arent any decent girls. There are but we tend to avoid them like many hot girls avoiding nice guys. Till they get what matters or they run out of time and settle lol. Its the very same with both genders.
2022-07-31 01:22
Yes ofc (no bias at all :D)
2022-07-30 10:37
#69
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Germany xxtimxx
If she's your soulmate then yes. In other cases - no.
2022-07-30 10:52
#71
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Finland KieZuZ
My wife says no when I wanted to get a gf.
2022-07-30 10:57
2 replies
Evil wife
2022-07-30 11:54
wtf why not
2022-07-30 12:02
good relationships are great but require a lot of effort, and bad ones can get very messy. it depends on who you are, where you are in your life and who your gf is. imo yes its great but the answer to "is it worth it?" will be different for everyone
2022-07-30 11:05
1 reply
#147
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Netherlands SpiceNut
Based
2022-07-30 13:49
#75
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Sweden tjevy
Depends on the gf obviously
2022-07-30 11:05
1 reply
+1
2022-07-30 11:50
yes, just find emphatic, kind, normal girl
2022-07-30 11:07
No, stay free and invite girls to ur cave thats it
2022-07-30 11:46
#81
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Romania Pecea
no, girls arent permanent, but your pc is
2022-07-30 11:47
You guys have the weirdest concepts of relationships (being around 24/7 for example) which begs the question who really had one here...
2022-07-30 11:52
3 replies
me
2022-07-30 11:54
2 replies
Point me to your initial reply to op then..
2022-07-30 12:05
1 reply
pardon?
2022-07-30 13:00
ask yourself if you want someone you love, or someone who just fulfills the role of girlfriend
2022-07-30 11:53
1 reply
#148
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Netherlands SpiceNut
That's deep..
2022-07-30 13:49
only if you are both your own people and respect boundaries and alone time clingy and jealous girls are the worst
2022-07-30 11:53
3 replies
good take considering the flag
2022-07-30 11:54
2 replies
well thank you good sir although im fakeflagging im tipping my fedora to you
2022-07-30 11:58
1 reply
every fiji flag is fakeflagging
2022-07-30 13:30
if you cant love yourself do not try and love someone else
2022-07-30 11:53
3 replies
actually good advice on hltv wtf???
2022-07-30 12:03
1 reply
seoul_air never misses
2022-07-30 12:59
you dont need to "love" yourself to love someone else
2022-08-01 20:44
idk, i want to become a wizard
2022-07-30 11:56
if you find the right person at the right time, its one of the most beautiful things in the world
2022-07-30 12:04
no, i swear no. just get married if you can, otherwise, it's a big problem
2022-07-30 12:20
love is what makes life worth living having a girl just for the sake of it without any love is not worth it
2022-07-30 12:55
Depends
2022-07-30 13:00
why spend too much money when i can buy a rtx 3090 and watch hentai.... and still make money by mining bitcoin... ezz
2022-07-30 13:10
1 reply
2022-07-30 13:44
There are pros and cons thats for sure xD
2022-07-30 13:39
3 replies
with the right one there shouldnt be any cons tbh
2022-08-01 20:43
2 replies
Thats very false. There always will be, but the pros outweigh the cons.
2022-08-01 22:34
1 reply
i wouldnt say ive had any true "cons" in my relationship so far though
2022-08-02 02:48
why am i reading all this? bush
2022-07-30 13:45
Idk man never had one and all i think about is sex
2022-07-30 13:47
if you have tons of free time, yes sure. Otherwise, not.
2022-07-30 13:51
It depends. Worth what? What is "it"? If you're spending half of your income on her, no, she's not "worth it". If all she wants is your affection, and she gives back her own, then you're not losing anything, so it is "worth it". But it also depends on the quality of the gf, if you like her personality and her being with you improves your life she's worth a lot more than if you just want a gf for the sake of having one.
2022-07-30 14:08
depends on your personality. i dont like to be with someone 24/7 and eventually girlfriend will become that. like i cant go on solo vacation or festival with the boys every weekend.
2022-07-30 14:11
If you're under 30 - absolutely NO
2022-07-30 14:11
1 reply
lmao what?
2022-08-01 20:42
if shes rich than yes if shes poor than no
2022-07-30 14:15
#155
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Switzerland Imodeode
Imo it shouldn’t be a question of whether it‘s worth it or not - if you like someone then pursue them, if not then don‘t. Right now I fail to see how it could be any more complicated than that.
2022-07-30 14:15
We all have limited time in this goddamn planet, nobody has the chance and time to fine tune the search for a gf like we how we a search for a product in online shopping site with filters. When you get a chance to safely talk with a girl, just have a nice conversation. Chances are that she is also having a rough time. Then you will get a opportunity to talk more and even touch her. Then find how she thinks and reacts. If you are able to decipher her with a decent accuracy, you kinda unlock something special. Then it is upto you whether you should stop/make her gf/be a friend with her.
2022-07-30 14:34
so these threads about gf's and what not get left but my thread gets deleted? kyra mi yanko
2022-07-30 21:38
#162
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Serbia DjapeZ
no man, fck gf
2022-07-31 01:32
in general yes but ofc theres ups and down but the ups are greater than the downs as long as you both trust eachother fully you shouldnt have a problem
2022-08-01 20:35
Less time for CS. Stonks only go down with GF
2022-08-01 20:37
saying "worth it" is a weird way to put it if you cant commit to a relationship, dont get into one
2022-08-01 20:40
#171
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Bosnia and Herzegovina hyrox1
Depends of your age,under ~28 not, above is kinda ok.
2022-08-01 20:48
#175
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Germany ChRiZOwow
You can make kids together and have a happy family )))
2022-08-03 22:13
#176
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Denmark slacking
Here's my report: Yes it is worth. However some cons: my libido is way higher than hers so sex isn't enough I still need to please myself a few times a week Also you spend more money Still worth tho
2022-08-03 22:15
worth what
2022-08-03 22:17
only one? 1 is too close to 0 so no
2022-08-03 22:21
If u have to ask, it is not imo. Imo its best when u dont chase it and comes natural. I never looked for a gf, but when the person came in my life as a friend and i noticed i involved ger in most things in my life, be it parties, hanging out with other friends or searching for an advise and she did the aame, it was only natural transition that we became more than just friends and we are still here 5 years later. You have to notice yourself when is the right moment to commit and you have to be aware that in a long period of times things sometimes go south, there are decisions to be made and obstacles to overcome(that being if you are out of your teenagers years, you probably wont have more then drama 'problems' when u are in highschool) and also sometimes if you are living with that person things get a little stale and one of you has to take initiative to spice things a little and not take each other for granted (usually talking goes a long way)
2022-08-03 22:25
if you find the right one for it then yes but don't go rushing into a relationship it's alot of work and you need the right person to do it tl/dr don't fuck everything that moves actually take some time to get to know someone
2022-08-03 22:23
too much effort for everything they *might sometimes* provide if they can be arsed.
2022-08-04 16:30
yes, if she plays csgo
2022-08-04 16:34
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